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I really like a boy now and I don;t know whether he likes me too or not, how to find it out without asking him directly?

2006-11-02 23:31:16 · 15 answers · asked by wonder why 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

15 answers

Depends on how old you are.
14, forget it and enjoy your teen years.
22, bring up the topic of marriage.
39, ask him to marry you.
55, forget it, ask him into your bed.

2006-11-02 23:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ricardo 2 · 0 0

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you are interested, then make sure that he knows. If not, then the opportunity may pass and you might never know. I can only guess at your age, but it sounds like he might be younger. Speaking from a lot of dating experience, he might be shy and lacking confidence. One of the worst feelings growing up is rejection from a girl. We can try harder if we don't make a team or get a grade, but when it comes to love and dating, we are totally vulnerable. The smallest girl can bring down the biggest man. We can't make them like us. We can't kick there butt if they aren't interested. Point being, I was so afraid of rejection that I would ask all of her friends and family if I had a chance, only after I already had a good idea. If he is anything like me, he might need to be smacked in the face before he approaches you. Lastly, don't come on too strong. Just make sure that he knows beyond a shadow of a doubt. Talk to him. Drop hints. I started dating a girl once because she dropped big hints. We had a class together and one day she yelled across class and asked if I was going to a concert. I told her that I wasn't even aware that they were coming to town. after a bit of conversation, I bought tickets and asked her to go. We dated for 6 months or so.

2006-11-03 00:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by rock d 3 · 0 0

I can understand if you are shy but asking directly really is a good way you know.

Maybe talk to a friend of his about him? Be direct with the friend and see what they say? The worst thing is not knowing. It's better to know one way or another.

Good luck.

2006-11-02 23:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should ask him directly. If you don't then think about what you might have missed out on. Good Luck.

2006-11-02 23:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0 0

Well, you can always ask his friends or get your friends to snoop around. You can also see if this guy flirts back with you or looks at
you and smiles. Give it sometime. If nothing is there, move on. There are other guys out there.

2006-11-02 23:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by joe19 4 · 0 0

well this you can do, put him in-between something that "he love" and you, by inviting him for something.

if he can neglect that thing and come to you, he is love with you, but if he stay put on that thing, forget it he doen not think of you a minute.

i hope it work that way, and good luck

2006-11-02 23:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0 0

Ask one of his friends to talk to him about you and tell you

2006-11-02 23:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Neeraja Singh 3 · 0 0

you are a woman. use your talents to test his love for you. don't compromise or submit to anything that you do not wish to do to have this persons attention. his actions to the situation will be your answer to the question. does he or does he not feel for me as I for him. protect yourself at all cost.

2006-11-02 23:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by jh452004 2 · 0 0

Ask his friends, and ask girls his previously gone out with

2006-11-02 23:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

By letter...
By asking his friends

2006-11-02 23:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by POWERBS 3 · 0 0

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