He is a very trustworthy and understanding guy, which is so rare in this world, so that's why I don't wanna lose him. But we can't even have a intersting conversation cuz he is so lay back and boring!
When we talk, his answers are always within 5 words.He never make an effort to think of something to say. He said he just want to be with me and he thinks he doesn't need to impress me with his conversation skills.
How to deal with someone like that???
2006-11-02 23:18:56 · 13 answers · asked by anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Omg! Are we going out with the same guy!? My b/f is exactly the same! I couldn't ask for a nicer guy but he is SO boring! If I want to do anything I literally have to drag him out of the house, otherwise I'd spend my whole time stuck in his pokey flat! I've been thinking of leaving him for a while now for other reasons as well but its so hard to bring it up because he is just a nice person.
Do whatever feels right for you though.
2006-11-03 00:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him talk to you. If you can, try not talking to him for a couple days, only little things, short sentences like he does. Eventually he will get nervous that something might be wrong and he'll start asking questions. Then get him to talk more often bby explaining to him that you were frustrated and treated him the way he's been treating you.
2006-11-03 07:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Darkwraith83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, let him know nicely. These kind of relationships are typically based on something other than love. Let him know how you feel and tak a break, you will come to find out that being single is not a bad thing...
2006-11-03 07:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Gaston73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to ask him yes and no questions like:
How was your day?
Are you hot?
Do you have a phone?
Ask him questions that would prompt him to talk more like:
I can remember how our first kiss was so sweet, under the moonlight and you touched me.......tell me, how your first kiss was, the location, the scenario, everything?
That way, he would talk more. The key is not to pressure him but to make him relax and open with you.
2006-11-03 07:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept him the way he is and let his good qualities out weigh his lack in conversation skills!
2006-11-03 07:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea well he sound like he might be shy. I was like that at one time, lol way backkkkkk . if its just on the phone , some people arent phone people. he might be thinking of another girl so his mind isnt working properly lol
2006-11-03 07:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by streetkritic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't! Can you imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with him? If not, then you should move on and find someone that you can actually talk with.
2006-11-03 07:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DING DONG>>>>> HE MITE NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE TOOOO>>>GUYS WILL GET REAL SHORT WITH GIRLS WHEN THEY DONT LIKE THEM ANYMORE>>>>OR HE IS JUST BORING AND THATS WHEN U GO OUT WITH YOUR GF''S AND LET HIM PLAY PS.
2006-11-03 07:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by GREATANSWERONI2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll get back to you!
2006-11-03 14:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill him.......
he;s not the sharpest tool in the shed !
2006-11-03 07:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋