Though i try my best to meet her needs i sometimes get frustrated because am still a student and only trying to make ends meet. What must i do?
2006-11-02 23:17:24 · 12 answers · asked by Tesboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Evaluate the relationship; ask yourself: Is this woman the "one"? If she is does she see you as the one? Is it a win-win situation? Or, are you losing. Judge this by things that have happened; avoid your personal feelings as much as possible. Men pay for it; I don't care what anyone says to the contrary. Women do expect to be treated generously. Also you use the word "must"; does that mean you can't afford her? If that's the case then you either have to find a way to support her, or find the strength to leave her if she is not open to compromise. If your crazy about her, ie. you need her to be the mother of your children, then you may need to take desparate measures. I think you know what I mean. The goal is to make her: a. see your intensity b. realize her necessity (to your life) c. understand that you will more than be able meet her needs in the future.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-02 23:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you really love her, so why doncha check the paper for some part- time jobs that would suit her and keep pointing them out. Surely she'll get your point after not too long. Send her into your local milkbars and butcher shop, fishnchip shop, etc, she'll pick up some hours some where. She has to pull her weight- Tell her you were after a girlfriend, not a daughter.
2006-11-03 07:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bexx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is there really strong feelings on both ends? It sounds like you're her personal bank account. There isn't much of a relations to be had if that's the case.
2006-11-03 07:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by Darkwraith83 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow she sounds like she takes you for granted you need to talk to her about this and if she cares for you then she'll understand that it would be better to share some of the costs! You seem really really nice and any girl with you should appreciate you for who you are not what you spend on her
2006-11-03 07:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by String of pearls 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that she needs to get a job. Do she not know that a relationship is suppose to be 50/50.
2006-11-03 07:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is a gold digger, let her find someone else to dig.
I have friend just like that.She never pays for ANYTHING. There will always be people who are richer than you, so don't waste your time and hers. She will dump u for someone richer sooner or later.
2006-11-03 07:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I sure she doesn't need everything she ask for. Only get the things she really needs.
2006-11-03 07:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're being used; tell her to get a job or learn to budget her money!
2006-11-03 07:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her no, your needs must come first and if she disagrees, let her pay your way in this world.
2006-11-03 07:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop supplying everything. If she sticks around she loves you, if she doesn't, you've just made your life a little easier.
2006-11-03 07:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋