yeah i want to go to a party tonight but guess what me parents said NO. this is soooo stupid they said NO at the last mintunt and i am sooooo mad at then for that. and lets just put into there that they grounded me and they will not let me go to that party because i am grounded. but b/c they heard that they was going to be like whoes there from my school and giving free lap dances. this is soooo stupid and this is my first party that i have been invited to in my high school years. sooo what should i do.
2006-11-02 23:12:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Why dont you grow up you obviously did something against there wishes and now you have to pay the price, be a big girl and suck it up. Besides if you were my daughter there is no way in hell Id let you go to a party with a buch of Hoe's giving lap dances. I wouldnt allow my daughter to whore around at a party!!!! So quit being a baby and disrespecting the people who brought you into this world.
2006-11-03 04:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have four daughters, 23/21/18 and 10 and I have told all my older girls no at one time or another when they have asked to go to parties etc. (dont have to worry about the younger one...yet)
As a parent I am responsible for my children and that often means making choices that I know up front they are not going to like,.but I still have to make them.
I am not an uptight mom and believe it or not my girls and their friends come to me about alot of things and I am considered a "hip" mom. I am youthful, fun etc but I also make sure everyone knows I am the mom.
I see your screen name and I can pretty much tell your parents have made a good call. Why the nic? Why are there "rumors" about Ho's (i never know the exact way to write that word)and lap dances? I would guess because someone knows what will be going on. Maybe not as wild as it sounds but few teen parties are mild these days and to me it again goes back to your screen name. I doubt you hang around with kids from the church choir. (i know I know just because one goes to church doesnt make them pure and innocent but I was using it as an example)
BTW why are you grounded? maybe that has a part in why the party is off limits.
As a former "wild" teen (way back in the late 70's and early 80's) and as a mom with older girls I would like to make a few suggestions....do whats right as much as possible, give your parents a reason to be able to TRUST you at parties and outings with friends, do what you can to not get grounded, choose friends wisely and even though it will make you crazy...let some of what your parents say sink in and try to listen to them.
This is only one party but they are your parents for life. I am an orphan and would love to have parents again. Do what you can to find your peace and remember there will always be another party and you are the only one who can be ultimately resonsible for whether you get to go or not.
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2006-11-03 00:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by quarterhorsemom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Between your name here and the rumor of what the party will be, I'd say you should thank your parents. You know now that someone cares about you. Take the wrong path and they will still care, but you will need to have respect for yourself. Focus on some other fun thing right now and throw all your energy into a positive activity. This is character building and will define who you are. You're lucky.
2006-11-02 23:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Grounded for swearing? If swearing is the worst they take care of in elevating then you they do no longer understand how stable they have it. Swearing is gentle in assessment to what many mothers and fathers would desire to handle. you're able to come domicile preggo or addicted to meth, be flunking out of faculty have a 30 year previous boyfriend. attempt a compromise with them. clarify which you recognize which you have been incorrect to swear and spot if according to risk you will properly be punished in any different case like greater desirable chores as an occasion and that they please show you how to bypass to this occasion. Remind them of what a stable youngster you're without sounding satisfaction-complete and need for the main suitable. stable success.
2016-10-03 05:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them to tell you why you are not allowed to go .. put your point across that you would like them to trust you and that you will be home by a certain time.. don't sulk or get angry just listen and then put your point across. if they still say no I'm afraid you will have to wait.. tell them thanks for listening and don't get grumpy, if they change there mind and say okay but with certain rules .. makes sure you listen and do as the rules say or they wont let you go to another party for along time and they will not trust you.... good luck
2006-11-02 23:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home and obey your parent's rules. If they find out you snuck out or whatever, you'll be in more trouble and they will lose trust in you.
2006-11-03 03:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sneak out dude! Live a little
2006-11-03 01:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Baby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your parents. They obviously love you ane are just trying to keep you safe!
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2006-11-03 00:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home and do what your parents say. If you sneak out you will be more in trouble. Don't do it!
2006-11-03 04:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do..you are grounded.
PS: I don't blame them for saying No
2006-11-02 23:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋