2006-11-02 22:58:40 · 24 answers · asked by GalaxyGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all for your answers - for those of you that think i should take some pride in myself, desperate to want attention, bla bla etc!! I am desperate, but do have pride... alot of pride for picking myself up a very huge, deep and lonely depression after been left after 17 years with 2 kids and a whole heap of sh**!!! So I am proud of just getting out....I'm simply trying to store up a little confidence to enjoy being out after being put down for years!!! thank you though all the same, your comments are still appreciated - just a little over sensitive!!!
2006-11-02 23:29:04 · update #1
The last thing you want to do is to show any signs of desparatism. Dress with class, ( no short dresses or mini-skirts). Really the guys who have a sense of class really respect a lady when she holds herself in high esteem. Talk with your friends as though you are just truly out for a nice evening. If someone does hold an intelligent conversation with you, well that is a good start. You know don't fall for the one liners, and can I buy you a drink? Stay away from that. If a guy holds an intelligent conversation, then maybe later on in the evening a hug can be managed. (You must play extremely hard to get) Really the class guys really like challenges. If you dress with class, conduct yourself with a sense of pride, and wear a very nice perfume, you may get a hit. Remember bars are not really the best place to meet someone for relationships or so forth. Just remember that, and choose very wisely who you hold a conversation with.
2006-11-02 23:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dress classy. Look different then typical clubbing out fit. Keep your posture nice and straight. (sitting or standing) Confidence attracks attention.
Don't dirty dance with other girls. It makes you look desparte for a man and also looks trampy. You would only attrack the guys that are looking for a booty call.
Don't be shy have conversations with people and if it all possible try to strike the conversations before they are drunk. Why? Because people tend to be interesed when drunk, and then not when they are sober.
Act like a lady and don't dirty dance with every guy in the bar, that will make a girl look desparte.
Good luck and have fun!
2006-11-02 23:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,but You`d have to be desperate to want a hug from a stranger (man).They aint gonna give You no hug.You could get a few obvious things though !! No strings attached.Just have fun.Forget the hug
2006-11-02 23:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont be desperate! you dont need no1 else. your going out with the girls and you''l have a boss night and get really drunk and have a laff!!! then wen ya go home get ya vibrator out and then you'll be sorted and if ya cant remeber any of it the next day that means ya had a gud night without looking desperate. The right man will come along at the right time so you need to just need to relax, theres no point going out looking for him...let him find you babe !!
2006-11-02 23:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by saz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that desperate? geez---have some pride in yourself! The 2am Coyote UGLY one-night stand hugs and whatevers are the worst!!!
Enjoy the night but go home alone!!! SAFER that way!
2006-11-02 23:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt know but you can send me a pic and i will be able to tell if you are desperate or not . Its not about what you wear like some suggested. Just enjoy yourself and dont start doing the booty dance . you dont have to drop it like its hot just slo motion with it and you be aight
2006-11-02 23:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by streetkritic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brush a few away, sound silly i know but if you are seen shoving them off then you wont look like an easy gal. if you walk in beaming with confidence then I'm sure you will not have a problem have a wicked nite Hun and good luck.x
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2016-10-21 04:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the company of your friends and see what happens. Those that act as if they dont care are far more approachable.
2006-11-02 23:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you wear the shortest skirt in your wardrobe, and make sure your baps are on display. (Men dont really like that sort of thing!!??? I dont believe I just said that?) That should get you plenty of attention.
2006-11-02 23:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Luke H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋