a few minutes ago I asked what should I do with the guy who recently told me he likes me. Now I jsut realize that I don't really like him and I'd like to know how do I tell him that without hurting him.Btw he's my classmate and I'll be seeing him for a few more weeks before the holidays.
2006-11-02 22:50:30 · 11 answers · asked by - 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful. Sit down and write it out on paper read it a few times and make sure that if it was said to you that it wouldn't be as bad as just tellin him to go away.
2006-11-02 22:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by heather_21_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you just got out of a relationship and you aren't ready for another yet.
Say you are flattered by all the attention he pays you but you would only feel guilty if you used him as a rebound guy.
Tell him that he is a really nice guy and that any girl would be lucky to have him.
Be nice and what ever you do...Do not go out with some guy the next day.
For his sake and for your own you should continue to enjoy the single life until you feel ready again.
He will find someone who loves hime as he will love them.
2006-11-03 06:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him tat u like him as a class amte and u dont find any interst in him.dont tel him tat ulike him as a friend,after few days he'll b back saying to u friendship can turn into love and all blah blah blah
take care that u tell him in a diplomatic n polished way without hurting him.treat others the way u want them to treat u
all t best
2006-11-03 06:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by vasu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you may not be able to avoid hurting him, it's still important to be honest with him. Tell him that you like him, but only as a friend.
2006-11-03 06:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can tell you is, it better to let him know how you feel for him than just hidding under pretence.
so just tell him... though if you like his companion i mean you like it being around you you can still have him as friend. but let him know that, for you must define your relationship from the begining.
so i wish you best of luck
2006-11-03 07:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love just tell him iif he realy likes u hhe will get hurt but ur were telling him d truth,but if u don't tell now that will be horrible coz he will still be hurt and blaming himsellf coz he won't know exactully what wnt wrong
2006-11-03 06:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him nicely that you don't really like him, but still wana be friends.
If he gets dissapointed then tell him that there will still be other girls for him in the world...
I am sure he will be ok about it...
2006-11-03 06:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.... "You can love me.. but don't expect I'll love you back. You are my good friend. We can be friends. Lets see if you have luck in the future!!!" :)
2006-11-03 07:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ramses-the son of light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say u wanna be friends
2006-11-03 06:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by jazzjazjazz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you like him as friends only....
2006-11-03 07:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by dodadz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋