Why are we attracted to the opposite personality?

Question

I've always wondered why shy girls like outgoing guys and sometimes the other way around. Shy girls like don't talk at much at all so they barely have any attention. But the outgoing seem to have no problem at all. Talking and sharing things. Why are we attracted to the opposite personality?

Answer 1

i think because we try to be someone that pleases everyone. but because you can't have all the personality traits you can show. we try to extend ourselves to the person that we are with. that's why we like to choose the person who can show what we can't.

Answer 2

o.k., i think of opposites have a miles less threat of attracting then comparable personalities do. Opposites can get off the incorrect foot, because of the fact of basically an common conflict of words, as for similars.......it relatively is totally captivating once you the two agree on something.

Answer 3

Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.

I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.

Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.

I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.

When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!

Answer 4

That makes it a problem. Usually, we long for something we do not have.

Be happy with what you have and people will be attracted to you instead of you being attracted to them. If you are good you will be attracted to the same personality.

Answer 5

Its the nature's law cutie....opposite poles attract,like poles repel...
u cannot stand a person who behave the same way as u do....u cannot tolerate the same anger which u show to others,try it infront of a mirror...

c the moon bright in the dark sky....the combination is dark and light....the whole world goes tat way..its the natures law...

Answer 6

thats normal as positive and negative in electricity and north pole and south pole of magnet attracted to eachother,imagine you are shy and the second part is also shy do you think you will met some day?

Answer 7

Curiosity.

Answer 8

its kind of like trying to run a lawn mower with loose bolts on the manifold. it looses compression and won't run, well that's how women relate to men too cause it doesn't make any sense at all.

Answer 9

UR RIGHT!!!! I'm so poor and im attracted to the very very rich....lol,,,too bad they are not attracted to me

Answer 10

To complement each other. It wouldn't be very rewarding to be with someone exactly like you, don't you think?