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Until I burst,all the anger,pain hurt,betral came out.He was swearing me... We had a terrible fight. He left me,I tried to get him back coz I love him so much but all I got was a I dont care.So I gave up.. Started putting my life together then he came back,saying that he was testing me,what I would do if he left me.My heart went out to him I understood.So I took him back. Now we together,up til today he hasnt contacted me,I contact him only. Why does he do this,whats wrong? Does he really love me as he says? Why does he make me hurt so much? Whats wrong with him?
2006-11-02 22:46:36 · 9 answers · asked by sexyangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
Maybe it's time to pull out the heavy artillery. I am going to share with you a method I used to get over my ex wife after divorce.
I loved her very much and was true to her but she wanted to have the night life and other men, and that part almost killed me inside.
I had to have a way to survive and get on with my life, but I couldn't just stop loving her, so one day it came to me.
In reality, what had happened was the girl I loved so much just didn't exist anymore. I imagined that she had just died, gone forever, ceased to exist. I came unglued inside, cried, hurt, felt the whole pain, suffered and when there was no more left, I held an imaginary funeral and paid my respects and honored her memory as I remembered her in the past. I recalled all the good times and the bad times and when she was placed in the ground, and as I laid flowers on her grave, I knew then that I could now deal with the situation, as there was someone out there with her name, but the girl I loved died, and is gone forever, giving me the closure and the ability to get on with my life.
The method is called mental linguistic programming, and it worked for me and maybe it will help you deal with your pain and suffering.
I wish you peace of mind and heart and the ability for you to get over the terrible hurt you are going thru.
Darryl S.
2006-11-06 01:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets start by saying it is not just guys and it is really annoying as hell to see every woman write these things as if men are the only ones who do this.
In your situation you ended up with a jerk who does treat you poorly and sadly you love a jerk for what ever reason. I always like it when someone says they are "testing you". For what? And why? What do you get out of it in the end? Is there a big prize to be had because it certainly isn't him.
This time around keep the door locked and him on the other side. He needed a place to stay and he knew you would take him in. That was his test. He wanted to see if he could take advantage of your love and guess what? You passed and now you are hurt. A perfect score is a 100. Are you going to allow him to do it that many times?
Best of luck next time.
2006-11-02 23:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Braveheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I've heard of this happening way to often. This guy is an ***. Pardon the language X_x. But he is. Dump is sorry butt and get on with your life. The man does NOT love you. He is playing you for a fool. He has come to realize that you can be a sucker for punishment. The next thing you know, you might end up getting so infatuated with him, that he'll cheat on you, and you'll still take him back. I'm pretty sure you don't want that, so if I was you, I'd try and get out of the situation ASAP. :) Good luck.
2006-11-02 22:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by P'd off guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called "controlling" as long as he feels he got u on a string and u'll bite he'll keep on "pulling it!" u had it goin on when u pulled urself togethr and was alone! You lost all leverage when u gave in so "easily" and took him back :-( i hate to say it but its a game a game of the stronger mind... and right about now ur loosing let his *** call u ur not the one who needs him! Wants and NEEDS are two different things sweetie and waht u NEED is a mature man whom treats u w/ respect and appreciation.
The reason they don't appreciate it is b/c they think they are intitled to be overly treated well w/ no recipication and if u don't put ur foot down he will continue to "use" u! Wake up and get ur Woman on! U can do bad by urself!
2006-11-02 22:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump HIM ! serves that good for not something guy ! he doesnt deserve you ! yaa i noe some men in basic terms can't appreciate somethign good !! hell recognize your fee once he loses you ! and notwithstanding takes position dont take him decrease back ! from what you've written about him you may want to not take him decrease back EVER !! im sorry to assert this yet i imagine he's in basic terms utilising you as a economic help ! its undesirable adequate that he cheated on you! you deserve someone wayyy more effective perfect !! believe me not all men are like this you stumble on someone more effective perfect get rid of this guy tc all the suitable bye
2016-12-05 12:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by hamiton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have that paleo-conservative idea that women are inferior to men and, therefore, should be subservient. They think no appreciation is necessary because the woman's role is to cater to them. (Which it's not, by the way.) They don't know how to treat women like equals.
2006-11-03 04:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesnt love you he is trying to control you to get what he wants
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-11-02 22:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this lasts, he will be a controller and manipulator. avoid him.
2006-11-02 22:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because we are having our cave time.
2006-11-02 22:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋