I've moved overseas from my boyfriend, and he's decided to not come with me as originally planned. He's broken up with me, but he comes accross with one day loving me, one day hating me.
I know that I need to move on from him, and I'm finding it quite difficult, even though we are so far apart.
I'm getting ill over this whole ordeal, and am frustrated with myself with being this wrapped up. I am thinking I should approach this like he's died. Grieve, and move on.
Part of me still hopes that it will work out someday... but this hope that I have is draining me from the rest of my goals in life.
It's so hard to move on. Does anyone have any encouraging words or advice for me?
2006-11-02 22:42:36 · 9 answers · asked by apple_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you've made some very life-altering decisions, and are well on your way to achieving your goals. While loosing your boyfriend is very painful, just know that if it's meant to be, then you two will get together in the future. Try taking one day at a time, and stay focused on your goals. Also, keep yourself very busy, this will help and the pain of separation and loss will lessen. Best of luck to you!
2006-11-02 22:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some say love, it is a river that drowns the tender reed.
Some say love, it is a razor that leaves your soul to bleed.
Some say love, it is a hunger, an endless aching need.
I say love, it is a flower, and you it's only seed.
It's the heart, afraid of breaking, that never learns to dance.
It's the dream, afraid of waking, that never takes a chance.
It's the one, who won't be taken, who cannot seem to give.
And the soul, afraid of dying, that never learns to live.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
2006-11-02 22:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hard for him too but just move on and start doing things socially and eventually you will be able to start anew. Dont let him continue to talk to you just ignore his fickleness
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-11-02 22:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your probably have already herd this but your just going to have to stop thinking about him. Go out and do things, make plans with friends and go out and have fun.>
2006-11-02 22:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he should become your husband, what would he be doing on the days that he hates you ? You got to think ahead.
2006-11-02 22:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by sluggo1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear he is onlyyour ex boy friend, not husband. You will get better bf or better husband than him. Go ahead and find him.
2006-11-03 22:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by soofi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your friends to help you, and just remember that they're there and there not gonna leave you. Guys come and go, but friends stay forever.
2006-11-02 22:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by XYasmineX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on, get over it
2006-11-02 22:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry 2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, move on, he is not wirth your grief.
2006-11-02 22:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋