thank god she doesn't know i'm dating my step-sister - i'd hate to think what she'd do to us then....
2006-11-02 21:34:50 · 14 answers · asked by carla here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Learn to keep your private life to yourself. Mom's do not need to know every thing.
2006-11-02 21:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it like a man (excuse the pun). Extreme reactions sometimes happen in extreme situations, however you do need to let your mom know what she did was wrong, in time.
You sound almost smug about the step-sister thing, though, so it's hard to judge from the outside what you should do, since it doesn't tell me if you actually want to preserve your relationship with your mom. It seems today is the day for advising people to write letters - it must be something to do with the planets!!
Still, writing a letter is a good idea. If you are not living with your mom, I would go with that. If you are living with her, I would lay low, and wait until she comes around. Some parents do, others never will. I hope you are sure about this bi- thing though since it can cause a lot of unecessary damage if you happen to be "fooling around". A time of experimenting is normal in a teenager's life, but then again, only you know for sure what your inclination is. Good luck.
2006-11-03 06:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might consider doing two things. First, is to forgive her. The act of forgiveness opens your heart and soul. Try to understand where she is coming from. My parents were raised old school and they simply don't understand, it's the way they were raised.
Secondly, If you sincerely forgive her, try to start a dialog with her. Try to work it out. There's a possibility she won't from the aforementioned reason, then your best bet is to let time the wounds. Occasionally, try to initiate a conversation with her.
Although she was wrong for hitting you, I cannot stress the important of forgiving her. Harboring the negativity on your part will hamper your ability to learn, grow and love. Love is the bottom line. Remember, you have to love yourself as well. At least you know you CAN overcome life's difficulties. Experience is life's best teacher. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-11-03 06:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by jr95667 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bi or straight or what ever . Is your business. I personally don tagree with it but again its YOUR business. But dating your step sister is not a good thing . Thats family hunie . Family should not date Family
2006-11-03 06:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by alheseas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mother should accept her children as they are or want to be. Hittin you like that was totally out of line. I would have another talk with her and mention that she should accept you. You need to be sure of what you want to be if you are going to challange your mom for your rights as her daughter.
Just be respectable with her and just tell her how you feel. I dont know how old you are, but I would ask her, "Would you rather I live elsewhere and sever our relationship or accept me as you daughter and who I am."?
Its hard for a mother to hear things like this but she needs to think harder about what she may be loosing.
I wish you well,
2006-11-03 05:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm, i recommend that you go and see a counsellor with her. There seems to be a lot of unresolved issues here, and considering your mom's reaction when you told her you were bi, I definetely would not tell her about your step-sister...
2006-11-03 05:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her some time to deal with this info....maybe in the future dont be so quick to share things with her until you are absolutely sure that she needs to know.
Depending on your age, you may still be searching for what you want and need this time to experiment.
2006-11-03 05:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report her for abuse.... No one has the right to put their hand on you like that, and includes parents... That is very sad and I pity your mother for the way she acted towards you when you where being honest with her about how you felt... With a mother like that, who needs one...... I understand...
2006-11-03 08:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your elders they have trouble with these fast changing times.She most likely feels bad for slapping you.Tell her your sorry and hope for the best.
2006-11-03 05:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by cjett63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy ur life
sure one day its out
so dont worry
let the fact know to ur mother soon
thats the right way
but u mustnot tell it
2006-11-03 08:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by swaroopstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋