which would you choose?
great personality, someone who always is popular and always has a crowd of people around her, or someone with a great body, but who lacks the confidence to show/share it?
2006-11-02 21:32:29 · 40 answers · asked by kt_sub2000 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just like to have yours.............XXX
2006-11-02 21:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by chris n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sexy body is great at first but personality also goes along way. I would say an average looking girl with a great personality would have more luck with the guys than a sexy girl with a boring personality. So in my books personality is the factor and makes up for what she lacks on looks. But that said I would still need to be attracted to a girl before I can get to know her for her personality... Hope I havent confused you lol ;-)
2006-11-02 23:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Graham D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has such an incredible personality. But lucky for me, she has awsome curves in all the right places. She is a little bit of both, fabulous personality, great body, but low confidance. I kind of like that about her, cause that's where I come in, to compliment the hell out of her, I love her modesty. I love telling her she's beautiful, and then seeing the disbelief in her eyes with just a glint of "maybe I really am beautiful'. It makes me feel like her Prince Charming, her Knight in Shining Armor. So I choose..................
My wife.
Sorry if this is not the answer you were looking for, but it is how I feel.
I guess you could say the latter, hot body with no confidance to show it off.
2006-11-02 21:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, the initial attraction will be the sexy body, but if there is nothing between the ears the relationship will be shallow. Getting to know someone who has a good personality will be more rewarding in the long term.
2006-11-02 22:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be married to someone who had great personality, someone who always is popular and always has a crowd of people around her,
Now I'm with someone has a great body.
I think I prefer the 1st one though
2006-11-02 21:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by clarkec321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone with a great personality, even if they don't always have people hanging around her. There are plenty of people who "lack[] the confidence," but they can still have great personalities.
2006-11-02 21:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Josh5009 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a great personality can be a hindrance. You just become one in a crowd in their company
Someone who lacks confidence can come out of their shell, and will, and can achieve the confidence she craves. That's the one for me. Great fun.
2006-11-03 00:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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^^ That was my head hitting the keyboard. What is the craic here?! Both of the people you describe have good attribrutes. Sure great personality and confidence, aye and very attractive but modest as well! Great!
Why do we have to choose? If your either of these people you'll do alright and I'd be glad to know ya.
2006-11-02 21:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EASY.... great body, just for fun, for 1 night, for a weekend......
personality for anything that is more serious..... if your gonna be with someone for life.. do you realy think that they are going to still look as they did at 21, when they are 41 - 51 - 61? its more important to have someone you can talk to... because in the end, its all you have left....
2006-11-02 21:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Bmp1ksh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The plain fact is: sex is wonderful and new with a person who possesses a sexy body, but in time the attraction fades and one is left with a human-being to talk to and spend time with. One will only enjoy spending time in that person's company if they have an attractive personality, lots to say, a terrific sense of humour and general charisma.
So...personality is twenty times more important than physical attributes, within reason!
I have seen many ugly, unattractive girls snare very nice husbands because of their magnetic personalities. Of course, it's nice to find both in one person!
2006-11-02 21:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ill take the shy, confidence lacking chick with the great body..
2006-11-03 07:28:30 · answer #11 · answered by badassbiker1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋