A question for women. Ladies, when u meet a man, what are the first things u notice about him?

Question

Can be smell, style, personality exc. And also do u make a choice if hes right for u or not just by first impression's. What do u like in a man? Just wondering what u ladies think.

Ive had women notice how i smell, what im wearing, my eyes, my hair especially sence it always's looks like i slept on it wrong :) hands , what sorta car i drive, skin, just all sorts of things. See men are simple, we like good looking women, that arnt complete bitc#es all the time, if ur that then we like u, women are so complicated sometimes, but then again, i guess thats why im asking this question.

Answer 1

Its not necessarily any one thing...each person has something they carry that can be special...to me a great heart is what I notice first that counts for anything...kind words, actions , their mannerism...how they treat others around them..their family/friends...thats what I notice most...that far out weighs any other area to me

Answer 2

Smell should be okay, ofcourse no one likes a whiff of body odour but his cologne should not be extremely much as to make me faint.

Personality- He should be able to talk freely, keep eye contact and be able to make me laugh. If he shouts rudely or arrogantly to a waitress, attendant, e.t.c. then i know that he's not the one for me because he would do the same to me.

Dressing- matters a lot. I dress very well so i expect a guy to do the same. It doesn't have to be designer labels but he should look and dress good depending on the occassion. Infact, its a turn-on. If a guy can pay attention to little details like having neat nails, a nice haircut,e.t.c. then obviously he would pay me lots of attention in other areas.

Then he must be taller than me. Guys with sexy eyes and a nice haircut are winners. Apart from that, we must have chemistry. It doesn't have to be sexual but we should be able to flow because a guy can have everything and still not flow.

Answer 3

it depends on his proximity. if it's on the street it'll be the way he's dressed. i don't have a preference of clothing, just if he looks interesting or unusual. although i have a very fatal thing for artistic looking boys in worn-through shoes or trilbies. i love hats. most guys look so handsome in vintage hats.

if we're face-to-face it's the eyes. i think there's something very vulnerable about staring someone straight in the eye- i can't do it with people i don't know very well, but i'm more curious about the eyes of a guy i'm interested in.

finally, if we're any closer, it's the scent. i can't stand crappy aftershaves, but i adore a good scent. it can either be very wrong or very right. ever since i was little i've attatched perfumes to people, i can name every one of my mother's perfumes over the years. if i notice a perfume or even a soap i haven't smelled before then i'll think of that guy every-freaking-time i smell it again. it can be quite the curse.

Answer 4

It sounds like you're hesitant to believe your own emotions. in case you do not exhibit your self, you run the prospect of somebody else defining you. It sounds like a decision has been made in that regard by technique of the girl you're speaking about. a million Corinthians 13 says what love is. If I communicate in human or angelic tongues, yet do not have love, i'm in basic terms a convincing gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the present of prophecy and would fathom all mysteries and all comprehend-how, and if I have a faith that would want to flow mountains, yet do not have love, i'm not something. 3 If I provide all I own to the negative and substances over my body to difficulty that i'd boast, yet do not have love, I income not something. 4 Love is affected human being, love is form. It does not envy, it does not boast, it isn't proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it isn't self-searching for, it isn't genuinely angered, it retains no list of wrongs. 6 Love does not have interesting with evil yet rejoices with the actuality. 7 it continually protects, continually trusts, continually hopes, continually perseveres. 8 Love not in any respect fails.

Answer 5

his eyes are the first thing i look at- i find beautiful eyes really attractive. I think that overall appearance is very important, well dressed, good-looking men are very enticing. Generally, you can't tell too much about a person by just looking at them, however, most girls can get a general idea of the guy of person a guy is when they meet them. Hope this helps!!! ;)

Answer 6

His personality. This can be seen by the way he dresses, how he carries himself or expresses himself. If you want to know more you look in his eyes for confidence , kindness, sensitivty and so on. Usually I make a decision if I would like to see him again or not,if I will see him again it will take a couple of more dates to decide if he is right for me. I like men who are confident and dont show off.

Answer 7

Hi,
How he smells and if he smiles at me when he says "Hi" :) I hate it when he looks right at my boobs! A definite turn off to me... I want him to look at me and MY eyes. If he wants to sneak a peek then you better be quick when I'm not looking. I met to many guys and the second thing he looks at is my chest..... I think cut it out. My smile is up here! lol But I love a great smelling man, a clean man with a great smile and no bull **** lines.

Answer 8

I know this sounds weired. But the first thing i look at is his hands (they have to be clean & neat) then his shoes (clean, non-smelly shoes). Then if Im satisfied with that, then I take his personality in to consideration. Im not really worried by looks. But if he is good looking then thats a bonus.

Answer 9

I notice his eyes and smile first. Personality is also important. Someone who is sweet and caring, yet has a great sense of humor

Answer 10

looks, I observe his dressing... what really matters is after a conversation with him....I like intelligent and confident men...well informed n charming, respectful n considerate, good listener and gentle...!