ok so in a shop close to me there is a girl who works there who i really like and would like to get to know better. i have no idea how to start talking to her when i go in i usually get served by one of the other workers so i cant even start conversation ike that, i need help
2006-11-02 21:10:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its also that i've never actually asked a girl out that i've met outside of a club so i'm not used to having to handle this sort of situation sober lol
2006-11-02 21:23:39 · update #1
im in the exact opposite situation with a guy i know who works near where i do :S where do u work? Lol i dont serve him cos im shy Mabe thats how she feels So make a move !!!! wait to make sure she serves you
2006-11-02 21:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is surprisingly easy. The secret is just being direct and honest. Being good-looking helps, but you have to make do with the looks you were born with.
You go in there, walk up to her, smile, and say, "Hi, I realize you're busy right now, so I'll make this quick. I think you're really cool and I'd like to get to know you better. Would you like to get some coffee with me after you get off work?"
If she says yes, ask when she gets off work and then meet up with her. In the meantime, find a good location to go for coffee so you're not both trying to figure out where to head when you meet up with her.
If she says no, then leave her alone. No one likes a guy who hangs around after being rejected, and you'll look classier for knowing when to back off.
2006-11-03 05:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Yishan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to break that "ice" then get a chance and be friendly and be a gentleman. it won't take long before you know where this is going to go. good luck to you!
2006-11-03 05:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by cowboybabeeup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her n talk
2006-11-03 05:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋