So i started seeing this guy who was really warm, friendly, always texting calling emailing when we were apart. Everything seemed to be going well. Spent nights here and there together (once or twice a week) then we spent the whole of last weekend together and I thought that went well too.
But this week he's just gone cold on me- I dont care if he doesnt put kisses on his texts anymore- but I just find it strange that he used to and now he doesnt?
He invited me round last night and everything was fine, we had a laugh, and this morning he seems a bit cold again.
Shall I just stop wasting my time and move on? It seems a shame cos I really like him, just not sure why he was blowing so hot, now gone so cold?
I hate these blimming games people play when you start dating them! Why cant people just be honest about feelings and stuff?
2006-11-02 20:57:46 · 12 answers · asked by Georgie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instead of guessing about his feelings you should ask him. Just talk to him about it. If he doesn't really have a clear answer then..just..quit it. People who switch between hot & cold constantly are no fun.
2006-11-02 21:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just ask him have you done something to offend him or turn him off or something as you've noticed the change in his behaviour - yet its not consistent and you're a bit confused.
It could be nothing - maybe he thought he was coming on a bit strong and is trying to pull it back in a bit - Im sure he wont think any less of you for asking - and if there is a problem he has his opportunity to tell you - you're better off knowing - you could be worrying - and destroying what could be a great relationship with unnecessary worry. Good luck! xx
2006-11-02 21:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to agree. Sit him down and ask him. Otherwise you are gonna drive yourself nuts guessing. Tell him how uncomfortable he keeps making you feel, and ask him if you did or said something wrong. Maybe he's just embarrased "the morning after" and isn't sure how to handle it, or maybe he is a dick! Find out. Maybe he feels you are getting too clingy (not that you are!) Guys are wierd that way. Good luck. And don't put up with it if he won't at least discuss it.
2006-11-02 22:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea why this has happened, apart from that sometimes guys get worried when it all feels a bit comfortable, why dont you have an imaginary coffee with a close ex? see how he reacts, or mention a dream that you had where you were with another guy
try the cold shoulder technique, or just ask him outright....
eitehr way men are weird (am seriously considering going lez again!)
x
2006-11-02 21:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have gone from his number 1 girl to his
number 2 girl, and his number 2 number has gone from his number 2 girl to his number 3 girl.
2006-11-02 21:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just get abit freaked out every now and then my boyfriend used to be the same and it used to drive me mad but he explained it was because hed been hurt in the past and when he realised how much he liked me hed try push me away in case the same thing would happen again.By asking you to come over it shows he still interested give him time and don't cling to him it worked for me good luck!
2006-11-02 21:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by keevy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about turning the tables now...you giving him the cold shoulder..anyway if this doesnt work...dont waste your time..move on girl.
2006-11-02 21:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes torn between you and his other woman! Dump him off, life is too short to be messed around.
2006-11-02 21:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is wasting your time. If he really cared he would have showed you he does.
Give him the boot
2006-11-02 21:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to sit down and talk to each other, be honest about your feelings.
2006-11-02 21:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋