My exgirlfriend has recently had a meth addiction, got kicked out of every place she has lived and it seems that most people don't want anything to do with her. I being a sucker as usual allowed her to move in rather than living in her car. She has cleaned up and thats all good. But she has no respect at all for what I have doine for her and put up with from her. The thing that is bothering most is she acts like she has a choice on what I do in my own apartment (she doesn't pay any rent by the way) Friends that I have over, my choice to drink on the weekends, and any other substance I may choose to use. Is this any of her business. Last time I checked I was the one doing her a favor.
2006-11-02 20:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by Kevin S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to contact Social Services. You should not have to take care of her. Give her a deadline for making other living arrangements. Break it to her as diplomatically as you can but have a heart-to-heart talk and let her know that you were willing to assist her in an emergency but now both she and you need to move on.
2006-11-02 20:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Serendipity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing her a big favor but she is an addict and that is very hard for her to deal with and no it's not your problem but it would be nice of you to try and understand that she has problems and being that I know you still care about her, take the party else where and suggest maybe that she gets a job to pay you for rent.
2006-11-02 20:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing her a favor ..but don't keep reminding her of that .
If she had a drug addiction it might be wise to not drink around her if you want to help her.. because people with a former addiction may gain a new one pretty quickly.
2006-11-02 20:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like she has no respect for you at all...but then again did you really expect she would?People who use drugs get real used to not giving a damn about anyone other than themselves.
She is going to act like that for as long as you let her.
Sounds like she needs some living in her car time to me.
2006-11-02 20:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the Curb, and tell her to make some money for you and her addiction if she wants to live with you.
2006-11-02 20:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's great you did that for her very respectable but hey she cleaned up now and doesn't even appreciate what you did for her? that would be my last straw right there I'd tell her either she starts appreciating you for what you did and respecting you by helping out or she better get out.
2006-11-02 20:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by digdoggy299 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her out. If she's clean, she good enough to find a JOB and a place to live.
2006-11-02 20:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you and would not prefer to waste her time liking you in case you have already got a girl pal. basically call her and clarify the situation. regardless of you do do no longer lie to her with reference to the ex. which will basically issues until eventually now you even upward thrust as much as now the lady.
2016-10-15 08:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is crossing the line... dumb her, kick her, punch her, hit her, club her till she is half dead.. then throw her into her car and leave her there..
Jus joking.. another option is.. ask her and tell her directly.. raise ur voice like a man.. tell her thats ur apartmen shes living.. remind her of her history and why u stick to her.. make her realise...
2006-11-02 20:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked her to move in and your expecting her to by for your decision? , has it ever occured to you that she cares ?she dont owe you nothing,if your expecting a thank you, you might never get it.
2006-11-02 20:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋