Me and my boyfriend have been going out since August. Last school holidays i went on a school trip to Japan. One of the boys who went I had never noticed before, he turned out to be really nice and we became good friends. Naturally i fell for him. So now I have a huge problem. My boyfriend doesn't seem to like me anymore but I love him soo much, and on the other hand I really like the other guy, BUT if i dump my boyfriend and then ask the other guy out he might not say yes, so then I dumped him for no reason!!! Geez so confusing!! Can anyone give advice??
p.s YES, I AM A DRAMA QUEEN!!
2006-11-02 20:30:08 · 16 answers · asked by XYasmineX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drama Queen you are so confused you do not know what to do so it would be usless trying to give you advise, but just remember a very old saying
"A Bird in hand is worth Two in the bush"
2006-11-02 20:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you are a drama queen bec most of us will eventually experience the same situation you are right now. weigh your feelings first girl, im sure you dont want to make the wrong decision. think more than twice, think of the pros and cons. bear in mind these ffg questions: whom do you love more? are you going to be much happier if you're going to stay with ur bf or the new guy? if you are going to dump your bf, are you sure that this new guy likes you as well? what situation are you more comfortable? i am not an expert, should i say, but i know that these are the questions we mainly consider when you are in a situation like this. if you feel that your bf doesnt love you anymore then you two guys have to talk sincerely about your relationship. in a relationship, if one party is no longer happy, then the relationship will never work. you two deserve to be happy and i think it would be unfair if you are still going to continue your relationship. compromise, if the both of you would still like to save your relationship, much better.. communication girl is the key. about this new guy, you still have to know him more. you still have a long way if you have chosen this guy.
2006-11-03 04:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all: You must NEVER dump one person for another. End your relationship with the boyfriend you don't care about anymore and take time to be by yourself. Your present boyfriend doesn't like you anymore? Good. Now's a good time to end it.
You must always end relationship "for you", not for someone else. Give yourself time to understand yourself before you consider getting in to another relationship. Remain friends with the new guy, don't ask him out yet. Get to know him a little better before you decide you might want to pursue a relationship with him.
Take care of you. Don't do any relationship hopping, because it's gonna bite you in the butt one of these days.
2006-11-03 04:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you need to have a talk with your boyfriend and see where his head is. If you like this other guy, then you need to go with that feeling. If you lose your boyfriend, then that's just a chance you'll have to take. You are trying to have your cake and eat it too and that's just not fair to either one of them. If you love your boyfriend, then you must decide if this other guy would be worth losing him. You also need to remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I think you need to get with your boyfriend and have a real good talk because like you said, he seems like he's ready to let you go. But he may not be, he may just be feeling the vibe of this other guy. Don't throw away whats good for something that might be good. And if you end up with neither one of them, that's a risk you'll have to take and life is about risks. You can't hold on to someone like that, it's unfair.
2006-11-03 04:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first see if the other guy like you. if he does dump your bf (only if you know things arent really working out, something it's just in your head and think that so you can have an excuse to cheat, so be honest) if he doesnt you have a bf anyway. now if you do still like your bf. try to work things out and see what's the problem. just talk to him and be honest with him, communication is so important. hope this helps.
2006-11-03 04:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by black_metal_mist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your current boyfriend doesn't seem to be that into you...I'd talk to him about breaking up. Just tell him that you love him a lot but don't feel it back. Ask him what's up. The crush guy shouldn't even be in the picture. Don't be concerned about being in a relationship all the time. If you aren't satisfied with your boyfriend then talk to him about it.
2006-11-03 04:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's love but a mere infatuation. Just forget about him and move on with your life. You still can meet other guys! I know this site http://www.upkb.com/singlesnet.php for SinglesNet Dating You'll have a better chance for a relationship once you find your compatible mate. Good luck!
2006-11-03 07:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself first the question: Do you love the other one?
And if you can't decide, pray to God to give you the answer!
I hope you make the right choice! GOD bless!
2006-11-03 04:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart babe, thats all you really can do. Your to young to not experience life. Just do what you feel is right. Listen to your heart, it knows best.
2006-11-03 04:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by heather_21_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't seem a drama queen to me.well ask him first and then you`ll know if you should dump your boyfriend or not ..good luck!..and no,that doesn't mean you`re chetaing on him or anything...
2006-11-03 04:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Riot! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋