started as on/off relationship(i was doing the dumping,which resulted in him crying and begging me to stay)bc he had a habit of talking about other asian girls inappropriately(he has a thing for asians, i'm also asian).then after about a year, i had a 5month break with him (he wanted to get serious). afterwards,he still wanted me so we got back together.but this time the arguing was worse, our parents/friends hated us dating.then i dumped him again but this time he agreed.i tried to get him back but no.then after about 2 months, i accepted it somewhat and was moving on with 2 different guys, but just light dating(gets JEALOUS).then out of nowhere he wanted to get back together.then needs time alone to study for 5 days for exam. but i see him on 3rd day at library and he dumps me after i confront him about staring at a girl there (we're in college). his excuse is that he's too busy studying for med school, he didn't see a future for us,we argue too much,and he misses being single. help!
2006-11-02 20:26:52 · 5 answers · asked by samoa s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him go. Based on what you've written, I doubt he deserves your time or effort. Try distancing yourself from him. Don't communicate if you don't have to. Pursue other interests and move on. It's very likely that after you've kept your distance for some time he'll return wanting to restart the relationship. Whether you go back to him is a decision only you can make, but based on his pattern of coming and going I really wouldn't suggest getting involved. The kind of relationship you described is incredibly unhealthy and there's no guarantee that he'll change.
It's always difficult letting go of a relationship, especially if you've been involved with the individual for a fairly long time. Saying 'goodbye' to this guy is likely to be painful. If you decide to let him go and find yourself reminiscing about the past, remember all the negative aspects of your relationship and the hurt he has put you through. Make it clear to him through your actions that you don't have to put up with the way you're being treated and you won't.
Take care :).
2006-11-02 22:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy got something wrong in his head.. dun go back with him.. u can find someone better that knows how to value u... that guy really needs to see a psychologist.. tell him to bug off.. ur parents and friends dislike both of u go dating together for some reasons.. i think that guy is the problem here..
2006-11-03 04:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy acts more like he is in middle school then collage do yourself a favor and get rid of him find yourself a real man that will make time for you, and gets along with your friends cuz trust me your friends always know ;)
2006-11-03 04:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really upset because i really don't get jealous: I am not the selfish slutty type.
I would try and help!
PS If it doesn't really work it doesn't work. Sorry i can't really do anything about that. If it does really work great!
Love Amie
2006-11-03 04:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise.. kill him..
2006-11-03 04:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋