you want the guy to get interested in you.
get interested in him. Ask him questions about himself. Compliment him in the things you like about him. Discuss things you have in common. but only when you have an opportunity to: at a party, with friends, other people around. Never alone.
this will ensure he becomes aware that you exist.
When he starts to seek you out of the crowd, then try speaking with him in lowered tones and make eye contact all the time. Also try touching him when you are talking.
Its called flirting.
Please make him come to you. Don't push too hard or he will run far away.
2006-11-02 20:39:26
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answered by gutsa 2
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First make sure the possibility exists that he too is interested. If you feel he returns your affections, show him through your actions that you'd like to move the friendship beyond the platonic stage.
Call him occasionally (not often) 'just to talk'. When you begin feeling comfortable, pitch subtle hints that you're interested; the way he responds to these hints should give an idea whether pursuing a relationship with him is truly worth it. Casually encourage 'friendship' outings, such as movie and beach-going, in order to create opportunities for your friendship to develop into something more. It's very likely that if he likes you he will use these instances as a means of telling you how he feels.
If you ever feel brave enough, simply let him now that you would like to try dating for a while. Some men may be a little too shy or 'nice' to express their feelings and need a woman to make the fist move. Some are even more attracted to women who take this approach.
Well, I can't think of anything else. Good luck :).
2006-11-02 21:40:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Of this I am an expert so here we go. It works with both, men and women.
Find out as much about him as you possible can. Find ways to show up where he goes but only for short periods of time. Look pretty and sexy. Act as if you are never aware of him but if he catches you watching, give a short sincere smile but again don't linger.
You see, what you are doing is flirting with him but he doesn't know it. The more you seem to not notice, the more curious he will become. The good thing is he will have no idea you are chasing him...until he is caught. He'll probably think he got you all on his own.
If this doesn't work, sneak up behind him and give him a big kiss. Then act surprised that he is not who you thought he was.
This will be a fun project so have fun.
2006-11-02 20:46:02
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answered by Robere 5
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you don't need to exert much effort regarding this, just be simple bec i believe through experience that simplicity attracts. actually, im in the same situation as you are right now and whenever he's in front of me i can't even utter a word though i do have lots to say. my friend's advise is to stay natural whenever he is around but be more interesting like letting him know that you are cool. this pretty works as well, give him the best smile whenever you see him, my brother told me that when a girl flashes a sweet smile, they can't resist to know more about that girl. good luck to both of us :)
2006-11-02 20:33:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I would just let him know by flirting a bit with him, when you do talk to him casually touch him on the arm. If he texts you then don reply straight away leave it about an hour and text back, but dont do this everytime it might lead him to think that your just being casual.
Good luck
2006-11-02 20:29:35
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answered by Kate 2
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dont be bold by saying u dream bout him and all that. Just see the right moment in the conversation n tell him its so wierd i dont know i've started feeling for u. That ways youre not exactly tell him that u like him but u are putting a point accross and believe me knowing guys he will give it a serious thought that night
2006-11-02 20:29:22
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answered by AJ 2
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well milady ...sEz...
depending on the type of man you are interested in a long kiss or telling him straight would be the best option
but depending on you persona (not knowing if you are shy or direct). my advise is to tell the gentleman in question how you feel in private over a cup of tea or coffee or perhaps a quiet drink in a bar / pub
good luck
2006-11-02 20:58:19
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answered by HOWLING MAD FERALMAN 2
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Just let him know.
Honestly it is not complicated but some people make it more complicated for themselves.
Save time and frustration...don't count on someone picking up on hints.
Just tell him that you think he is great,or that you like his smile,his sense of humor whatever it is that got you interested in him.:)
2006-11-02 20:46:11
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answered by Anonymous
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be chill/cool, and tell him the truth, yes that's right, the truth, nothing else but truth/realism - the way you feel about him.
I'm a guy and most girls don't know this, but, guys REALLY like it when girls come up to them.
2006-11-02 20:49:18
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answered by hot_spah 1
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Tell him that you want to go out and if he says no then you didnt waist your time. Be honest its the best policy. Men like women that are bold and daring.
2006-11-02 20:28:32
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answered by Super Girl 3
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