My bf is leaving the country. We have been together for a very long time. I don't know what to do! What is the best way to maintain a long distance relationship?
2006-11-02 20:18:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why be forced into a long distance relationship? Get knocked up before he leaves. Problem solved.
2006-11-02 20:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is a tough one. But if you love and take care of each other very much, you can go on with your relationships though you need to be very patient. I am in long distance relationship right now. we call each other almost every day, e-mail each other and we always try to meet at least twice in a year.
What I tell my self is that, I have some body that I love and she will always be there for me at a time of needing her.
When I feel lonely I call her and chat with her and I will be relieved.
when I hear her voice I feel like she is beside me.
So inorder to have a nice long distance relationship both of you should convince your selves to be face the situation and always hope that you will meet soon. In the mean time you can communicate with all the time you have.
What I strongly object is that you shouldn't get involved in another kind of relationship with another person. That will kill a long distance relationship.
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-02 21:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is in Iraq now for his second year tour over there. So I know all about long distance relationships. COMMUNICATION, TRUST, HONESTY those are the things that get us through. Communicate, the little things with eachother, even if its not important. Trust, give eachother the benefit of doubt. If you accuse or jump to conclusion you will both have a hard time with the distance. Honesty, make sure you don't lie. Lies come back to bite you in the ***. Nothing ever stays a secret. If you can tell him things then it will make him comfortable telling you things. **Love has no distance** If you love eachother enough to wait, you will be just fine! After this deployment my husband and I will have seen eachother 10 months out of 3 years. If you ever need anyone to talk to, since I am a pro at this long distance thing, feel free to email me at JJaclyn85@yahoo.com. Hope this helps
2006-11-02 20:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jaclyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle a long distance relationship is through strength, prayer and communication. If your relationship is strong, it will weather all storms. Try to visit if you can, keep in touch, be honest with each other. And remember that if it's meant to be, it will be. And remember that everything happens for a reason.
2006-11-02 20:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "best way". I say this seriously and earnestly...out of sight...out of mind.
What good is a long distance relationship anyway. How can it be fulfilling? If you remain here...you best try and cope. Things will not remain the same. You eventually will have to move on. Life is certainly too short.
You owe it to yourself to be happy...not lonely.
2006-11-02 20:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are extremely hard. You can wait for him to come back or...go with him....
It's going to be expensive since he's leaving the country. Buy plenty of phone cards and make sure you try and speak to him as much as possible thru e-mail etc...
Buy a web cam for yourself and get him one too.
It could work out, but you know that popular saying, "Out of Sight, Out of Mind" BUT then again..."Absence makes the heart grow fonder."
To make your life easier...just go with him....
2006-11-02 20:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by JamaicanGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have strong foundation, distance will be nothing to your relationship... the both of you should be strong... its a matter of trust and courage! good luck to the both f you!!!
2006-11-02 20:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by ms. suplada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to call ur bf everyday but not every minutes!! coz he will bored if u always call and want to know where he is.. and don't be too jealous ok!!gd luck!!
2006-11-02 20:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by dilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow him to the ends of the earth
2006-11-02 20:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mobiles, internet will keep u connected throughout. don't worry.
2006-11-02 20:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by sneha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋