Me and my bf go back and forth about me talking to my ex. Me and my ex (josh) were together for two and a half years, me and and my current bf (cory) having been together for about six months. At the beginning of Cory and I's relationship i talked to Josh often, but now i only talk to him about once a week, if that. Cory still gets upset about this even though i have cut down. I have no feelings for Josh anymore and cory understands that but he thinks that Josh still has feelings for me, although he has never tried to get back together with me. Cory has never told me I can't talk to him but I feel bad and I feel like i'm stuck in the middle. Me and Josh have a lot in common as friends but it will never work out between us as a couple ever again. What should I do?
2006-11-02 20:08:00 · 15 answers · asked by Brittany D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you truly have no feelings, then whats the issue...why are you fighting to hold on to your ex...time to let go and move on and nurture the relationship you are in and let go of the one that no longer works. Here's a hint: fighting to remain friends with an ex bf/gf tells the one you are with they aren't the only one... a great relationship becomes great by each person going out of their way to make sure the other KNOWS they are IT! you won't find a great relationship with an issue like this one in the center of it ..that I promise you
2006-11-02 20:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by rebelsgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know this bothers your current boyfriend and you really love him, you should stop talking to Josh. Place yourself in his position. Would you want Cory talking to his ex of 2 1/2 years who may possibly still have feelings for him. It seems to me that you may still have feelings for Josh that you are unaware of or unwilling to admit to. The relationship is over. Move on with Cory, Josh had his turn to be you friend when you to were together.
2006-11-02 20:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u r being too sensitive.. ur current bf didnt say anything abt u talking with Josh.. anyway, its ok if Josh still has feelings for u.. thats normal.. U and Cory have to get on with ur relationship.. jus talk to Josh like u usually do.. but if Cory cant accept that then maybe he's not being understanding.. as long as u dun have feelings for Josh then everything will be ok.. tell this to Cory like the one u posted on the internet.. truth is alwiz better than lie.. as ur bf, cory shud understand this..
2006-11-02 20:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing..just don't talk to him and continue your relationship with Cory..after a few months Josh will get over it..
2006-11-02 20:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there, done that. I also think Josh has lingering feelings for you (from the way you tell it). I would tell Josh that you are in a new relationship, and would rather not speak to him anymore. Cut your losses, and move on with your new man. Speaking to Josh only encourages him.
2006-11-02 20:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's not like josh is an ex-husband huh? many people have been intimate together and went their separate ways all while remaining friends.
i believe you when you say that you've reassured corey that nothing is wrong.....not that you really had to. what is love? what is trust? what is the benefit of the doubt? the longer you stay the stronger it gets...yeah? you're young , be happy. there are enough problems in life without creating more for nothing.
2006-11-02 20:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer kick your self so complicated, ok? It replaced into in all probability exciting on the time and in part because of the fact you have been ingesting. the guy is a jerk. to boot, he contacted you. there's no longer something to experience undesirable approximately. in case you had contacted him, that must be a distinctive tale. with a bit of luck he won't call you back. I had an ex call me as quickly as after 2 many years! It replaced into exciting getting caught up yet he's married with 4 youngsters now. He stored calling me like each and every six months desirous to attach to me. I basically began putting up on him while he called. JERK.
2016-10-15 08:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are not married it doesn't mean you have to cut him out of your life. You two shared alot together and if you can still be friends, more power to you. The bf needs to deal with it.
2006-11-02 20:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stop talking to him, if you don't have feelings for him anymore than don't live in the past. Besides, I'm sure if you talk to him enough he'll get the idea that you're leading him on.
Just my two cents.
2006-11-02 20:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by BAD INTENTIONS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to deal with it, if you let him start controlling who you talk to now he will try to run you over every chance he gets in the future. Stand your ground and tell him its non of his business who you have as friends. Then jump all over him for not trusting you. You got to keep him in line if he is your man.
-NmD!
2006-11-02 20:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋