Well I have this massive crush on this girl I've approached her 3 times so far. Now whenever we pass by each other in the halls she never looks me straight in the eye, she is an extremely shy person as well.
Whenever she sees me she'll just look toward the other side all the way down. We only see each other threw one hallway and it's pretty much routine at this point.
If she REALLY didn't like me she'd simply take the other hallway down right? Taking that route wouldn't slow her down from getting to the locker room where she goes... so I don't understand maybe she does still like me and is hoping I'll approach her again? Or am I just trying to convince myself into something that might not happen.
2006-11-02 20:04:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write her a letter telling her how you feel, and tell her to write back. This way if she wants to reject you, at least she don't have to reject you to your face.
If she does not write back, forget her and go for someone else. She ain't worth you wasting all your high school years on.
2006-11-02 20:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, if it's uncomfortable, weird or unpleasant... excuse yourself and move on because that's NOT the girl for you...yeah, it's going to hurt but just remember it's NOT YOUR FAULT if things don't click, if there is no chemistry... everyone is different, but a soul mate will be just that.
You know you have the right girl when you both are at ease with yourself, talk freely, and aren't embarrassed if you, say drop a fork at a meal.
Everything will be SO EASY... but that's a trap, many a man has lost a GREAT woman because he took her for granted.
Remember this too... the WOMAN is the one that CHOOSES not the man.
All you can do is put yourself out there in the hopes she picks YOU.
It happens.
If she touches you when she speaks for example, your arm, hand or shoulder... she's yours!
2006-11-03 04:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by dave_martin_7777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you ask another attractive gentleman to try to strike up a conversation with her. If she is this shy with him also, then she really is just shy. If she talks with him naturally, then you must face the fact that she doesn't want to be friends with you.
Your crush cannot be built on personality, so perhaps it is her looks that you find attractive. It's difficult to see how you could be enamored of her otherwise when you haven't been able to get acquainted.
2006-11-03 04:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Serendipity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont YOU take the other hallway down?Maybe you are just been paranoid.Why should she change her routine to prove something to you?You go that way and if she also starts using that way,then you know that she likes you too.
2006-11-03 04:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be persistent until she explicitly says she's not interested. No harm in that except a broken ego. If you're worried about that then you really are a PunkAssGG.
2006-11-03 04:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she doesn't like you..there is this guy whose crushing on me even though i am 2 years older than him..,i stay at school in the libary all the time and he thinks i like him because when i stay he is there also..so..sadly..no,i don't think she likes you..
2006-11-03 04:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her man!
Seriously what is really so scary about talking to a girl/lady? I really don't understand that?????????????????????????????
What is wrong with the other gender?
Note: I am really confused about that!
2006-11-03 04:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just trying to convince yourself.
2006-11-03 04:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo a broke down g-unit, wit no game, go homo watch a porno and call it a day
2006-11-03 04:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by fukey_you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her????
2006-11-03 04:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by JamaicanGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋