How do you walk away from someone who you do care about but you know its not going anywhere. Its been 2yrs and I still don't know if we are a couple. He told me that he don't believe in labels. I don't let him sleep over like he was during in the beginning but he still like coming over my place. I tried to stay away from him but he calls and I get sucked back in. How do you walk away from person when you care about him?
2006-11-02 18:10:34 · 10 answers · asked by Apple 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write down what you want out of life and write down what kind of man you want to share your life with (ambitious, successful, kind, loving, babies, etc.). Add to the list for several days or even weeks. Is he a good match of your list . . . I bet not. If you make the final decision to not have him around, call your girlfriends, your family, anyone that can give you emotional support. Tell them how he acts and how uncommitted he is. Be very honest. Ask for their help. If you are lonely call them, if you need a night on the town go out with your friends (NOT him). Replace him with people that truly care about you. Get an answering machine and always listen to find out who's calling before you answer the phone. If he knocks on your door, don't answer it. It will be very hard at first, but if you accept only people that love you, you'll get over it. Realize that you and your feelings are too important to be wasting your time with this person. You deserve much more. It will get easier as time passes and one day you will wonder why you were ever with him at all.
2006-11-02 18:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by ckperin0682 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had past tru this before, when i'm find someone that i love. I will think that he is the last guy in my life. I care about him so much until i forget to care about myself. But after we break up and now when i think back the past, i feel that i'm so childish, thats no such thing like you cant live without this guy or cant walk away from him. The question is, "you want or don't want"? Think about this...
2006-11-03 02:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by stephie_8707 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hardest part about breaking up is that you often still care about the other person, and you don't want to hurt them. but, in reality, you're hurting them much more by not breaking it off clean, and what seems to you to be being nice to him is really just protecting yourself from the harshness of being the 'bad guy.' I don't mean to land on you with both feet, most people don't realize that, but from what I've seen, it's true.
2006-11-03 02:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by sam I am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to let it go. He doesn't believe in labels? Drop him. Go find someone who believes in labels cuz that is ridiculous.... and you put up with that for 2 years? That aint right.
2006-11-03 02:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by JamaicanGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u sure u want to? If the relationship is going nowhere just tell him you need to move on with or without him.
2006-11-03 02:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by moonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time you have "THE TALK" if you know what i mean, some guys are just scum, they like the whole lovey dovey stuff, but once its heading towards any kind of commitment its like they get retarded or sometin, if you dont clear your doubts now, soon you'll be attending his wedding day, but dont expect to be the bride.
2006-11-03 02:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not interested in breaking up. Thats what I see from your words. If you make up your mind then tell him its over.
2006-11-03 02:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by jk s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ick it's time for the dreaded Let's just be friends talk
2006-11-03 02:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by keoni_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you all ready know he won't change?
2006-11-03 02:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur black, move to africa, i promise he would never chase u
2006-11-03 02:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by sameep b 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋