does he check on me or kiss my little grand daughter or make her laugh some one help me understand im on the edge
2006-11-02 17:42:59 · 17 answers · asked by feeling hopeless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thank you so much everyone who took the time to answer my question. the pain is so great. thank you again
2006-11-02 17:57:37 · update #1
ignorance is not an excuse for stupidity like the first answer me. there is spirituality with out religion. i dont know your religous background but it doesnt matter. everything consists of energy around us. its fact. and the energy never dissapears it just becomes something else. so with that in mind your brothers energy is not dead it has just become something else. there are no true answers for what occurs after death. i am a student of rei-ki, a japanes form of healing with energy and through this i have learned to be in tune with energy. there are always signs of his pressence you just have to realize they arent going to be as obvious as a phone call or a friendly slap on the back. just ask him to show you he is there and eventualy you will notice. but also be aware that its time to move on and time to let him do what he needs to do in the after life. hanging onto him will not only impede with your life here but with what ever he is up to where ever he is. in my opinion i say take one day out of the year to celebrate his life and not mourn his death and spend it with him in your heart and in your mind doing things he wouldve enjoyed doing with you. sort of like a family reunion that you both can come back to every year. take care and good luck.
2006-11-02 17:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What has happened has happened due to Karma. We cant change anything. The only thing that can be done is to plan and think of the future. I dont think u should look signs when there aren't any. If u do some meditation and keep the faith, I am sure there will be a sign after a while , that means he is actually watching over u and your daughter. Believe in God or in whatever u do believe.
2006-11-02 17:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by viren k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your loved ones always come around you after they have passed. It is very likely that he does interact with your grand daughter because children are able to see, hear, feel those that have passed on. If you would like some more information you should check out some of Sylvia Brown's books. She is very spiritually based. I am sorry for your pain.
2006-11-02 17:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by micg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother just died and i never left she's no more. I feel her everyday. She lives with me and is always with me. That's because she's in my heart. These are things which only me can feel and no one else. No one can even understand that. She lives in me and is still part of my life and will always be. I don't believe of life after death or ......It's just that i love her so much and i want her to live. But the truth is that the dead never comes back. We make them alive by our memories,by talking abt them and by always loving them.
2006-11-02 18:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I believe in spirits and that life doesn't end just because in the physical realm one has lost their shell (in humans, our shell is our body).
I lost my twin brother 3 years ago and I feel him with me every day. There are little signs that show me that he's here watching me, holding me sometimes and looking out for me.
I feel for you, and I will pray that you get through this painful experience.
2006-11-02 17:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can tell you anything. I too lost my best friend/brother. I can tell you this, he will continue to live in your heart as long as you let him.
I think a lot of times my brother talks to me in my dreams.
I know its sad and you miss him, just don't let people mislead you. We can get desperate even to be able to know the person is still there. I think if it happens, you will just know.
Don't spend money trying to get that answer please.
My brother was 36, I was 35. They called us T&T, the twins born a year apart.
He lives in my heart.
~T~
2006-11-02 17:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 38yrs.old... my mother got killed when I was 16yrs.old.....
she has been gone for 22yrs...... Believe it or not...
I still have dreams and nightmares of it, they say I
need to go to grief therapy ..... but what will that do????
I will still have all the pain, and talking about it
makes it worse.....
2006-11-03 14:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is all around you if you keep him in your heart. If you do things that he may have taught you or act certain ways because you learned from him, then hes always there. Sorry for your loss.
2006-11-02 17:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my little brother too. Email me at: afreeman20035252@yahoo.com
What I want to tell you is best left private.
2006-11-02 17:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by afreeman20035252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with thumper he always going to be with you because hes in your heart so he never dies but his body is resting so let it rest make peace with him and keep his memory alive in you the kids, grand kids and your see do things to celebrate the life he had but you have to br strong for yourself
2006-11-02 17:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋