My boyfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago. When we broke up he said that he still wants a friendship and would still like to go on dates every now and then. So I felt that we ended on good terms. Since our break up I have felt that I am the only one trying to keep a friendship. For example, I am usually the only one to text him and when I do he either responds and is friendly or doesn't respond at all. what does this mean? And also, I recently saw him at a friends dance party and while I was there he came up to me and talked for awhile. He seemed to be acting kinda flirty and more himself than usual. What does this all mean? And how come he hasn't he taken me out on any more dates??
2006-11-02 17:38:01 · 8 answers · asked by songbirdchelsea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason why he probably said it in the first place is to avoid hurting your feelings then, but that does not necessarily mean that he actually meant what he said.
I will have to agree with the others as well that there is a high probability that he is just using you to fill those days when he probably couldn't get a date with other women.
Harsh and cruel? Maybe, but that is your reality with this guy.
Just move on with your life. You don't want to get involve with him again EVER.
2006-11-02 23:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up even in good terms means what it means breaking up. Don't get to caught up with this guy your just setting yourself up to get hurt even more. try not texting him. seem like your busy too, he'll start to look for you if he's really keeping his word
2006-11-02 17:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by prophetslostsoul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about some guys, but I mean it, yes!
You poor girl, Song Bird. If you were where I am, we could at least be friends.
2006-11-02 17:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 05:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. He's obviously just taking you for a ride. It's time you move on.
2006-11-02 18:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to have you around to fall back on when he needs a date but he really wants other girls and lots of sex. dont be there at his beck and call and try to find another guy who really wants you. not just everyone and anyone.
2006-11-02 17:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you for a sucker. Forget him and move on.
2006-11-02 17:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. This guy is playing you.
2006-11-02 19:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋