last friday i called this girl from my gym class and i told her that i liked her and if she was free this weekend, i would like to do something. she said she actually had a ton of homework but maybe later...
keep in mind that a guy has never told her they liked her (shes a dating virgin) so she may very well have been taken back and unsure of what to say, maybe even nervous.
well, this week we havent talked that much, only asking how your doing and saying hi. she and i have missed a couple days anyways, so i really havent had the chance to bring up the subject.
now that you have the details, where should i go from here? i was thinking about calling her tomorrow night, and asking her again if shes free or telling her my feelings and why and getting her opinion on the subject. or i could forget the whole thing and just move on (id prefer not to~this girl is very pretty!)
btw im in high school, im 16, drive, and ive dated before... so im not new to this. but im confused!!!!
2006-11-02 17:33:57 · 4 answers · asked by sakic_cikas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe shes not allowed to date yet by her parents. leave her alone this weekend and ask her next weekend.
2006-11-02 17:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe next time you talk to her, you could just throw it out there... you know, "well, it'd be cool if we spent some time together, but i know you're busy. why don't you call me when you're free?"
That way she knows how you feel about her, you don't have to keep calling and getting shot down (if that is the case), and you put the ball in her court. So if nothing happens, then it's on her. Good luck.
2006-11-03 01:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so cute!!!! Give her a little space and definately start off as friends. Make sure she's comfortable around you. She may just be cautious considering she's never dated. Don't move things to quickly or you might scare her off. Good luck!!!
2006-11-03 01:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's a person who isn't ready for a date and is feeling kind of pressure. Give her some space and when u want to ask her out ask her out causally
2006-11-03 02:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋