I came to love him, he was 4 years older... he treats me as his specialfriend and i kept on telling him It's ok... but deep inside, i really, really can't take it anymore. He was inlove with another ''her" but that "her" doesn't like him anymore... he found out i alredy liked him but he told me that he wasn't the right one for me... i told him it's ok but it hurts a lot. please help me... it's really painful, we always text each other, but knowing that he can't love me back... please help me, i need help.
2006-11-02 17:21:13 · 7 answers · asked by crystal and clover 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cut the text messages....ignore them....don't ever reply......the earlier you stop, the earlier you're gonna get over it...........if you two never went out (more than friends) then it'll be easier........you can't force someone to love you............i'm going through that right now...my 2yr8mnth boyfriend and i broke up 5 months ago and i JUST started ignoring his phone calls.....pushing him away....it hurts a lot but y be with someone who can't love you back????? don't see him or talk to him atleast for a month....trust me u'll just laugh about it
2006-11-02 17:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now isn't his message clear!! He is not interested in you Romantically.Prefers to have you as his close/best friend.Don't jeopardize the relationship by showing a romantic inclination.
And If you are lucky he might see in the long run that he should be with the one who loves him and not with the one with whom he loves.
2006-11-03 01:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Specky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT TIME TO LEAVE HIM ALONG, YOU DESERVE MORE THEN
A SPECIAL FRIIEND.,IT NOT OK. AND IT SHOULD NOT BE
FOR YOU. FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE AND APPRICATE YOU. HE WILL NEVER GIVE YOU WHAT YOU
NEED AND WANT SO STOP THE TEXT HIM AND EVERYTHING
ELSE. OTHER WISE YOU WILL NEVER GET OVER THIS
HOLD THAT HE HAS OVER YOU. IT WILL BE HARD AT'
FIRST BECAUSE YOU CARE FOR HIM.BUT TIME TO
MOVE ON. JUST TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME. AND IT
WILL GET BETTER AS THE TIME GO BY. BUT TAKE
BABY STEPS. AND SEE HOW IT GOES. START NOW.
2006-11-03 01:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be better to let go and move on from this friendship because this will hurt you each time you see him. you will eventually find someone in time. read more on love and relationships to understand more on this site
2006-11-03 01:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by pumpntush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break the ties and open your mind to others, you might find out hes right.
2006-11-03 01:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ya got a bit more exciting in the bedroom, you wouldnt have this problem. get nasty.
2006-11-03 01:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget abt him
2006-11-03 01:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋