I'm thinking about making a move on a married man......?

Question

i really like him. he always stares at me. should i?

Answer 1

You could do it if you really want to...but you'll have to go through lot of trouble. You may fall in love with him deeply, he may not leave his wife, you will be frustrated in the end, you'll doubt him if he loves you the most or his wife and you'll fight more with him.

Now, this might happen if you are really lucky. But it's almost impossible...you might charm him well, he might fall in love with you, he leaves his wife and marry you. But...would you really want to marry him? He cheated on his wife and he got married to the other woman. There's big possibility that he'll cheat on you!

What I'm trying to say is, that you shouldn't do it for your own good. I think you should find someone available...then again, it's your life and it's your choice. Do what you want, follow your heart and take care of yourself.

Answer 2

Why would you even think this was okay? Obviously, if he only stares at you then he is trying to be a good guy. All men stare you are not special.

Answer 3

Put yourself in the place of the wife how would you feel if you were his wife and you found out your husband cheated on you, and what if there are children? are you willing to give or have one night of fun or theres also a chance you wasted your time then take the chance of possibly ruining a family is it worth it? theres plenty of non married men to look at and would probably look at you too. i would say no for the answer to your question

Answer 4

All I have to say is that I have seen it with my own eyes... The wife goes crazy leaves the man & wants to take everything from him if you like him at all let him stare and thats it ! Because you dont want to see a crazy fricken end to your little affair........

Answer 5

Why would you want a married man when there are so many single men that are ready to pleasure you, without the drama...
Besides it's just low down and wrong.

Answer 6

he stares at you? well then by all means make a move on him...the next time the neighbors dog stares at you, make a move on him too! C'mon!! What kind of question is this? Are you that dumb? Ever hear of Ms. Bobbitt??

Answer 7

Jamie, listen, Am a twenty years old guy in Nairobi Kenya, at my age i've been intemate with four different married women, it is fun and dangerous. honestly i can't get over it!

But i have my limits, it should not get to the marriage part. I dont want to meet their families and neither should they meet mine. if you think you should its your decision

Hope you make the right one.

Answer 8

Sure! If he responds, you'll find out so much about yourself - your terrible taste in men, your horrible judgment, your lack of principles ... it'll be great!

Then, in a few months, you'll get the chance to come on here and whine about him cheating on you or not leaving his wife. More drama from the same stupid choice - how can you lose?

Answer 9

I strongly advise against that. It can only lead to bad things.

If you're doing just for a booty call, it will most likely ruin his marriage. If you're doing it for a potential relationship, you have to think "Can I really trust him after he cheated on his wife?". You also might get labeled as a "home wrecker". Not good.

Seriously.... don't do it.

Answer 10

Please No!!! It will only mess up his wife"s life, and make you sad. no matter how tough we are, unless we are zombies, the heart always get tangled up in our liaisons, think instead about the last single guy who stared at you, and make a move him instead.