i need help on deciding what to do, ok i have a gf and weve been going out for 9 months and all, but, this school year ive been flirting w/ her cousin and she has been flirting back....and the love between my girlfriend seems to be running out or something, i need to know what to do, keep going out with my girlfriend or dump her for her cuz...cuz i really dont know........
2006-11-02 17:06:49 · 12 answers · asked by Thor A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a terrible thing to do to someone. If you dated her for that long she must trust you, and she trusts her cousin as well. This could destroy their relationship, and you certainly shouldn't be flirting with your girlfriend's cousin.
If the relationship is dying then break up with her, but don't put her through feeling betrayed by her cousin. find another girl.
2006-11-02 17:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Artemiseos 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
These questions are always hard to answer because of fate. However, most likely things will be difficult if you break up with her for her cousin. You could cause trouble in the family. The cousin could grow to not trust you. Maybe the cousin is testing you. Some girls only like what they can't have and then when they get it they choke on it and throw it out. ;). Get it? Maybe you need to think things through. Stay away from the cousin for a while. I don't mean a couple of hrs. I mean a couple of weeks. Hang out with your gf. Think about what drew you together. Talk to her. Find out if she still wants to be together. Try to do something nice for her. Don't always expect to receive.
2006-11-03 01:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by moonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really ready to pay the consequences for what kind of problems that will cause between them. What if your girl started flirting with one of your cousins? Would you mind? Would you really want to date a girl that would do that to a family member? Her cousin has no morals and no dignity considering she would go after her cousins' man. If you don't want to be with your girl anymore then break up with her because it's something between you two not because you left her for her cousin. Remember, paybacks a ***** and so are ex-girlfriends if you **** them over.
2006-11-03 01:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could dump her for her cousin but think of this....one, the cousin is eventually gonna worry that you might dump her for the first girl that flirts with you and two, picture that you might get married in the future and oh what a joy the family get togethers would be if there were any animosity between the two.....so I would forget the cousin altogether and if you aren't interested in your gf anymore at least be honest with her and find another girl...not related to her.....good luck
2006-11-03 01:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by freezerburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "dump" her...that's thoughtless and rude...however if you don't have feelings for her anymore (or strong ones anyway) then yeah, it's time to move on..so tactfully break up with her...
Teen relationships generally aren't long lasting...you're at the stage where you're learning about how guys and girls interact, and it's natural to want to date a variety of people...it's part of the learning process and way too soon in your life to worry about long term relationships anyway...
however, beware that the cousin may not date you because she may feel loyal to your (soon to be) ex...if she's a girl worth spending time with, she won't go out with you...because family ties will be stronger than teen attraction... (that's nothing against you personally)...
2006-11-03 01:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already looking and flirting with other girls and questioning what you think is your love for her, leave her. Don't drag it out and screw up big. Be upfront and honest. In the long run she'll appreciate your honesty and you will too. You may just end up being great friends. When it's LOVE, trust me, you'll know it.
2006-11-03 01:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by driftinglust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumping a girl for her cousin is a bad plan man. it just sounds bad and creates drama. skip the drama. But maybe it is time to see other people, just not her cousin if they are good friends or hang out together
2006-11-03 01:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by silverwolf872005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not asking for an answer here your asking someone one to make a decision for you. Only you can choose between them.
-NmD!
2006-11-03 01:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE HAVING PROBLEM WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND
THEN YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HER AND TELL
WHAT GOING ON. AS FOR THE COUSIN, YOU NO THAT
WOULD BE WRONG TO GO THERE. IF YOU WANT OUT
THAT FIND.BUT DATE SOMEONE ELSE INSEAD OF A
FAMILY MEMBER THAT WOULD BE SO WRONG.
2006-11-03 01:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her coz you are not yourself so serious.So why blame upon her totally .Do not feel bad ,but you are equally responsible.
2006-11-03 01:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by tej 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋