i love one girl. but i'm affried that she will not undestand me.and how to tell her that i love u
2006-11-02 16:34:06 · 13 answers · asked by aniket c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Aniket,
It is very difficult to find out the nature of any human being unless you start to spend time with him or her. Infact the best way to know a person is to live with him even spending a couple of hrs a day will not really show the true nature of a person.
It is nice to know that you love someone so stop worrying about her nature and that she will understand your feelings or not and just tell her that you like her and love her. Think positively if she says yes than good for you but if she says no it is OK, at least from your side you have tried and you wont regret that you didn't tell her how you felt for her. Always remember if she loves you eventually now or later you will be together but you have to tell her before its too late.
Tell her how you feel face to face and if you can put it in words ... write a letter. It will work.
All the best to you.Good luck and God bless
2006-11-02 17:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know her well, how do you know you really love her? It's only an 'attraction' or 'infatuation' at this point.
If you do know her, don't get too involved in discussing your feelings. Ask her out, talk a lot, laugh often, do many things together but don't tell her that you love her until you're well into your relationship and only if you you sincerely mean it. Those 'three little words' are used far too often and when relationships break up, people are very hurt.
2006-11-02 16:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like highschool infatuation.
Do not tell her right off the bat you love her. I've been there it's not pretty. It can definitley freak a girl out especially if you barely know her.
Get to know her, see how you guys get along. You probably don't LOVE love her just have strong feelings for. So test them out see how it goes.
2006-11-02 16:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jennay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel if u really like a girl den dont just natter any ting 2 her as this would give a rong impression on her. first spend time with her & den observe her i fu still feel d same feeling u used den she id urs ( but an advise u can never see a real girl under the mask )
2006-11-02 18:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by seti 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her her fav flavour of ice cream...
Vanilla - shez plain
chocolate - very conservative
on a cone- still a kid
with all the toppings - dont go near her
if she asks " whoz payin " - escape !
if she likes the same flavour as u ! shez jus like u !
2006-11-02 16:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by kay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys need to maintain a certain amount of mystery...Alot of girls dont want a parasite or someone who is joined at the hip...keep yourself interesting but at arms length..if you love her... dont fall over your feet telling her.. it will only turn her off... tune in... listen to what she is saying and not saying....not knowing is the key to knowing...
2006-11-02 16:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by aspenkizzyblue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way to find out whether she is the one for you is by spending time with her (as a friend).
As for telling her about your fealings, there are numerous ways. but lets take one step at a time.
2006-11-02 18:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look even god is unable to find out the nature of a girl. Then why do u want to find it out ?
2006-11-02 16:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Harshal M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your not dating her yet ask her out. get to know her and see if you still feel the same. read tips on love, relationships and dating to help you more on this site
2006-11-02 16:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by pumpntush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say I LOVE YOU by seeing into her eyes.
This act will reveal ur honesty & sincerity towards her.
Other persuasions are secondary.
2006-11-02 17:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kanchi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋