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do you really think that it is better to have loved and lost then never to have fallen in love at all? love really sux but there are some good things in it. what is ur best bf or gf you've ever had or that you have now whats the good and bad? how did it end.


I dont mean to pry in other ppls life but its better to talk about it then to keep it in.

2006-11-02 16:06:28 · 15 answers · asked by Groovy 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Looking at it now that she is gone, I have to say yes it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. It was worth it in the end. Part of it is that I never knew I could love the way I did with her until she came along. Thanks to her I know what true love is, and that's something everyone should experience at least once. You have to take all the good days you got from it and weigh them against the one horrible day when your love said goodbye, and ask yourself if it was worth it.
-NmD!

2006-11-02 16:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 2 0

i think that it is better to have loved someone than to have not. I think love is a weird thing and every person has there ups and downs.
the best thing that ever happen to my is my husband we have been together for 6 years now and we were best friends for 5 before we even relised what was infront of us, the best time that we have ever had together was the day our little boy was born i think that was the most emotional day ever but every day is new with us as the baby is only young so yeah.
if you need to talk rathe than keep it in you can send me an email
Goodluck with whats wrong

2006-11-02 16:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by punky 2 · 1 0

Maybe I'll get back to you if I ever fall in love instead of being a middle aged woman who still just develops secret crushes. So far, I haven't really found out what love is, so I lose too.

Personally never to have loved kinda really drags a person right down. Makes a person second guess why they were even born.

Feel better? I don't.

2006-11-02 16:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sky 3 · 1 0

yes, much better to have loved and lost. its part of growing up. what really sux is when you never really get over the person you loved. Almost always you do get over it and if you don't then all wounds heal in time. I had a huge crush in high school, maybe even my first love, and they say that many people always remember their first love. In many ways this person may symbolize your ideal BF or GF. especially if you continue to compare new GF and BF to this person.

2006-11-02 16:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by silverwolf872005 2 · 1 0

If you have never known love then you would never know a part of life. I think it is important to know so much happiness in your heart and how much pain it can make you feel. We learn from failures only to be better the next time around and if you do this, you have actually not failed. I look at people that are by themselves and they choose to be that way. I am not one to choose that way because I know the feeling of both and I believe in having that excitement again in the future. I think God gives us that feeling to let us experience here on earth so we can know what He feels for us and that is why He sent His only son here for us.

2006-11-02 16:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by meonhere 2 · 1 0

Yes, it is. It was a love affair that lasted 7 years and 10 months and I would not have missed it for the world. Marriage was not in the cards or us, and we just drifted apart. I am alone now, but not lonely.

2006-11-02 16:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1 0

No, losing sucks big time as well.

One ended because i was immature and she went with a man three years older than me (that turned out to be a fiasco for her)

Another ended because I was uncertain and she said decide or walk (so I walked)

A third ended because she had dreams of me doing horrible things and i was blamed constantly for that. I refused to live that was, so i walked.

It still hurts after all these years

2006-11-02 16:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

i would say better to have loved and lost. I have lost the greatest I had through my own stupidity. I am sorry but that is as far into it as I can go. i have come to terms with the mistakes I made, i was lucky enough her and I are still friends :P

2006-11-02 16:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 1 0

It depends on your point of view, and how hurt you are when a relationship ends.

Love does indeed suck...because sucking is a good thing, and love is fabulous. However when love ends, or the one we love rejects us, that can hurt quite a bit.

I'm happy that I've had the opportunity to love, even th ough I've lost them all...rather than to never know the joy and absolute euphoria that love can bring...

Those that don't love, generally don't get hurt....so they save themselves the pain and heartache of rejection and loss...but what are they allowing themselves to miss out on? Is it worth missing? They can't know, if they've never felt (romantic) love...

I'm glad I've loved...and I plan to love again. *smiles*

2006-11-02 16:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1 0

Well . . . I have a single friend who desperately believes in marriage and constantly images more in interactions with men because she is so desperate to date & marry. At least having loved and lost helps one to be more centered and to understand love.

2006-11-02 16:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by whozethere 5 · 1 0

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