My 9 month old started waking up several times a night about 2 months ago. Sometimes, as much as every hour-- Ever since then, I feel like I'm just too exhausted to have an orgasm during sex--and it doesn't matter how much my husband tries to please me. I want it to feel good--but it just doesn't. Has anyone else had a problem with sex after having a kid?
2006-11-02 16:02:58 · 4 answers · asked by applesoup 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yes, I did. But I didn't care. I just wanted to get some sleep. My husband and I were both tired. So, when we did make time for sex, we weren't really trying to have pre-baby sex. Our sex life has definitely changed, but it's not so bad, just different.
2006-11-02 16:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH YAH!!! your not alone..your exhausted... i know and you feel like your lettin hubby down too. As mom we tend to be so giving and nurturing we forget to give and nurture ourselves. You need to be tough with baby... you need to let baby cry it out. It isnt to early to start a scedule. The only way i ever got my sanity was well with both my kids, at 4 months, i decided i had enough, and i started thier routine. You have to start it sometime, and it sounds like your at that point right now. You and hubby have to let baby cry. And only allow yourself 1 time anight ( i usually did it around 4am)to check on the baby. other wise, you need to cover your head with your pillow and ignore the crying for a bit..this will only take a few nights...a week at the most!!! do it for your self. You wont hurt the baby, you wont scare the baby...it is healthy for them to have a routine, and to sleep thru the night, and until you stop giving in to every little cry...you wont have it.
2006-11-02 16:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by bangbanks72 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Goo Gawd one problem at a time,, try focusing on the child getting a full nights sleep first then the other thing might come back!!
2006-11-02 16:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
yes I did. it will all come back to you. your body is readjusting, and the baby waking up doesn't help either. give it time
2006-11-02 16:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by megirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋