i know he loves me, but i know for sure that i love him more, we going strong since last 2 years, and i have no regrets, but sometimes it pinches that he shud love me more, but as his love for me goes increasing, so does mine, so at the end i also give him more than wat i get. does it happen with u?????, do women tend to love more?????
2006-11-02 15:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by hmmm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you love someone truly, it doesn't matter if he loves you less. What matters most is that deep in your heart, you know that you do love that person. For sure, he, who you said love you too but not equally as you do love him, will appreciate the warmth and tendernesss of the love you have for him and love you more in return.
You can never tell the depth of his love for you because he, and he alone can measure it. You may just be presuming that your love for him is more than his love for you but you may be wrong.
You know, there are two maxims that I hold true in my heart and here they are:
"Give to the person you love the best love you could ever give him, and the best love from him will come back to you."
"Love begets love."
And even if you are right that you love him more than he loves you, don't be disheartened. Let time and your true love for him be the enhancers of his love for you. I'm sure, one day, you'll wake up with the realization that he loves you the same way that you love him or even more. All the best.
2006-11-02 16:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem with my b/f right now. I always feel like I love him more then what he loves me, and I also feel like I am giving more then what I get. Guys generally tend to not show as much emotion and feelings as girls do, if you guys have been together for two years then I wouldn't worry about it, because if he didn't love you as much as you loved him then you still wouldn't be together. If you pay attetion to every little thing he does you will see that he does love you just as much as you love him. I don't think women tend to love more. I just think they tend to show more. I just want to tell you I wish you all the best and all the happiness that you can get from this relationship and I am sure that he loves you the same.
2006-11-02 15:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Esther V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men express how they feel, totally different from us.(women) Who says you love him more than he loves you? Has he told you that, or are you just speculating? I noticed that you didn't mention in your question, why you feel the way you do. Don't assume anything, it could come back to bite you in the romp. If you're this concerned, sit him down and have a truthful and honest talk.
2006-11-02 16:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't about more or less it just simply is what it is. I have doubts that you really truly know what true love is. Not to be rude but the question itself tends to point out that you have yet to experience true love outside of somewhat childish expectations that you perceive love to be about.
-NmD!
2006-11-02 15:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys tend to not show their feelings, so maybe he does love you just as much as you love him. Maybe you just cant tell because of his behavior?
2006-11-02 15:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Wondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yes and no...wemon show their love more than men and men kepp it in till something traumatic happens or when they lose u
2006-11-02 15:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Groovy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love my "HIM" more than he love me.
In my heart i know i love him so much but im not sure if he really loves me. It really happen.
2006-11-02 16:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by anne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and if one day you break up it will be easier for him to walk away than it would be for you
2006-11-02 15:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋