Guys how would you feel if your girlfriend just wanted to kiss but not go any further?
I've always been kinda shy but at the same time I never felt that I needed a boyfriend to be happy. I always put school and friends first. I always get hit on but I'm really picky and I didn't even have my first boyfriend until now at age 20. I even had my first kiss at age 20 and my then boyfriend couldn't believe that I had never kissed a guy since he thought I was so beautiful. But our relationship involved kissing but nothing further. I just feel like I'm not ready. My bf told me he could wait but he ended it soon. I wanna save sex for marriage but I also don't think I wanna go past kissing. It seems as though sexual inexperience and purity is not valued anymore and that guys just wanna "have fun" with the dirty girls but cringe if the girl wants to stay pure. Would any of you guys be able to tolerate only kissing and nothing more with your girlfriend?
2006-11-02 15:37:03 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are like finding a diamond among a box of cubic zirconias.
I would be willing to wait for marriage as your b/f if that is what you wanted.
And I am sure you will find a guy who believes as you do.
So keep doing what feels right in your heart.
2006-11-02 15:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it depends on your age and what you feel comfortable with. But most girls by the age of 20 have already been kissed, felt up, and/or had sex with. So he may feel that even though you're beautiful he could achieve orgasm with another girl (via oral or copulation).
2006-11-02 23:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think in my opinion that if you scared that you should wait cuz u would want to do anything your not comfortable with. but on the other hand its always good to experiance things. i dont think there is anything wrong with having sex as long as your careful. but eventually guys will get bored just making out, just because you need to spice things up to keep a relationship strong. but in the end you have to go with your own feelings about that whole sex issue
2006-11-02 23:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i may not be a guy so I don't know exactly how they feel. but I think that you staying pure is something worth fighting for. the world needs more girls out there willing to wait for their soulmate. some of the people I know are 14 and they aren't even that pure. you should just be proud of yourself. it takes a lot of strength to say no. I think that is awesome!!
2006-11-02 23:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt mind her not going any further with me because she obviously has reasons as to why she doesnt want to go any further....
You said it yourself in your question posting
"I JUST FEEL LIKE I'M NOT READY."
That is all that matters, if the guy cant wait then he just isnt worth it because he doesnt think your worth waiting for, so drop him if he trys to make you do anything you dont want to do....Stay Safe!!!!!
2006-11-03 00:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by DOLLARZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm fine with only kissing.Thats all me and my girlfriend do.Sex is for marriage.Its great that u dont wanna go past kissing.Maybe your boyfriend is a pervert who just wants to get in your pants?
2006-11-02 23:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by shan_997 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd be fine with kissing, he was a chump, adn if you want to save yourself for amrriage, do it. because i can guarantee if you want to save yourself, and end up giving yourself to a guy you think might eb the one, it wont sit well with you, and you proboly just wont liek the idea of sex verry much.
2006-11-02 23:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right.
2006-11-02 23:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you, choose the right.
2006-11-02 23:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋