my girlfriend got flowers today at work and there was no name the guy just told the person who recieved the flowers to tell her that she is beautiful. she swears she does not know who would send flowers to her at work and that she has really not told anyone where she works. she works at kinder care a child day care place. could it be a parent?
2006-11-02 15:35:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Unless there has been something in the past to make you suspicious, I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. There is no accounting for some people, they'll hit on people without provocation and do foolish things to try and get their attention. If spending money on them like doing something like this doesn't work for them, hopefully they'll catch the hint. If she is someone you really care about, personally I wouldn't push things with this because it would plant seeds of mistrust that could be hard to take back.
2006-11-02 15:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by chiseledsteel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should trust her that she doesn't know who sent it, unless this is part of some on-going thing.
It could be a parent, a co-worker, an employee or customer of a nearby business that would see her going in and out of work, a 'friend of a friend,' or even someone who knows you both and didn't mean anything bad by it, they just wanted to be nice to her.
I think that if someone is 'hitting on' her, then they'll send more, or do something else, and they'd definately include their name. And if this is the case, they probably don't realize that she's already in a relationship.
Maybe you could make a similar gesture? Send her a bigger, better boquet, or surprise her by showing up to take her to lunch (if she can leave for lunch; some daycare providers eat lunch with the children) or pick her up from work sometimes for a date night.
That way if someone is trying to score a date with her, you'll give them a chance to see you with her and back off, without any sort of altercation.
2006-11-02 23:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is telling the truth, it is possible, especially if there are no other signs that she is playing around behind your back. Give her the benefit of the doubt, there is a saying which goes "innocent until proved guilty", don't make her out to be guilty if you have no proof that she is being naughty. It could have been anyone who sent them, she must come into contact with a few people every day, even just walking to and from work, perhaps someone spotted her in the street and followed her to see where she works.
2006-11-03 03:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it could be a parent!!!! I wouldn't stress too much, it could just be a nice compliment to your GF... If it happens again, your GF should not accept them and send them back. Maybe the flower shop could call the person who placed the order and let him know that the flowers were sent back.. I wouldn't stress too much, your GF is probably a little flattered and so should you. You have a beautiful GF who loves you. Don't stress too much, in the future maybe your GF could let her co workers know that if flowers come again, then to try and find out who they are from. GL
2006-11-03 13:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by totallylovableandinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be, but then it could be anyone. Could be a single parent, could be a friend of someone who knows her.
I'd leave her alone and let her feel good about getting flowers from an admirer.
2006-11-02 23:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by ihave5katz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...
it could be a parent or somebody who also works at the same kinder care place, or it could also be somebody who works near the kinder care and sees your girlfriend everyday.
the flowers are sent to be complimentary, so unless your gf is stalked, you should not worry.
2006-11-02 23:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
perhaps it's a single father! Think back to all of the parents that come in to pick kids up... which of them are single dads? hmmmmmm he sounds like a sweet guy! i love flowers out of the blue!
2006-11-03 03:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just a parent, but word to the wise don't push the situation to much.You might just make a bigger problem out of it.If you trust her you shouldn't have anything to worry about.If you don't, and she has done something wrong before, or now you may want to just confront her about it.Good Luck
2006-11-02 23:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by D.L. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't jealous, you should trust her. I think it's nice for someone like her who works for a child day care to get something that makes her feel appreciative.
2006-11-02 23:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be, you need to trust her though. If I was in you're situation I would be more worried about what kind of sicko is trying to stalk my 'girlfriend.' Don't jump to conclusions.
Look I used to be like that and actually look through my partners phone and look through his wallet. He doesn't allow me to look through his wallet because of his 'privacy'. Now I can understand that and I never ever check up on him, ever. That keeps the 'adultery' out of my mind and gives me space to have a breather and trust him.
2006-11-02 23:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋