Our relationship is good on many levels, but my fiance and I have not had sex in the time we've known each other, about 14 months now. She's told me she has no issues about sex, just extremely busy with medical school, which does have a crazy busy schedule. . EVERYONE says sex isn't everything but 14 months??? She says it bothers her too, but not like it does me and I've told her that. I don't believe she's cheating or anything. In fact, she's talked about "making it happen" but so far.... nothing. Any idea what's going on here?!?!?
2006-11-02 15:31:37 · 5 answers · asked by archer005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may be intent on waiting till the wedding night and is not quite brave enough to tell you.
OR, she is afraid of sex.
You might try telling her you think she just wants to wait for marriage, but then you should ask her if she has any emotional issues that make her think sex is bad. Be very up front, some women have had unpleasant experiences with people who told them horror stories about sex. That can put a psychological block regarding sex in their mind. You better find out now and it that is the problem, insist you go to therapy together or you might end up one very unhappy man.
You BOTH deserve better.
2006-11-02 16:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's not that important for you guys. It sounds like you don't want to make the time to do it. Do you guys do anything intimate? are you guys just friends? if that's the case, you shouldn't be engaged, because there should be some chemistry in your relation shiop.....just my opinion.
2006-11-02 23:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too busy to have a high sex drive or non at all,, just see the signs before marriage,, if she doesn't care now,, ask yourself how important will it be when your married!!
2006-11-02 23:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til the wedding night, it will be soooooooo worth the wait!!!!! Maybe she is a virgin and saving herself til you guys actually get married! Wait now, but reap the benefits on your honeymoon!!!
2006-11-02 23:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
but you guys have engaged already, so wot's bothering you. It will happen soon..
2006-11-02 23:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋