she found him on match. com! They have a running date (go on a run) I dont think this is a good idea! Also I am scared, should I be?
Oh and yes my parents are divorced and I live with my mom
2006-11-02 15:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys I know what he could do to her. I am not stupid! Plus it is this weekend, and I am going to my dad's this weekend!
2006-11-02 15:39:19 · update #1
You know-once I would have agreed with you 100%. Then my son (against my advice) started dating a girl he met on one of those web sites. Know what? She is DIVINE!! He would never have met her otherwise.They lived in the same zip code, but had attended different colleges, etc. We LOVE her!! Oh yes-now they are married 5 years with a baby son. Give you Mom (and you) a chance here!
2006-11-02 15:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a specific reason not to trust this guy, stop meddling in your mother's business. It's natural for you to have concerns about your mother dating again. I can speak from my own experience that dating again after a divorce can be a stressful process. Don't add any more stress by meddling. If you truly have concerns then talk to your mother about them but not in a confrontational way. Previous posts have suggested going along on the date. Not a good idea. A first date needs to be mostly one on one so that the two people can really get to know each other. The suggestion for sending a spy is ridiculous.
2006-11-02 23:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by b0jangle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be scared. If they're on a running date (out in public) there isn't gonna be too much chance to fool around. It's a good first date thing to do to get to know each other to determine if you want to persue things further.
2006-11-02 23:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be if it was my mom...can you run too? Have a trusted older male run with you and sort of "spy" persay on your mothers running date! Thats what I would do at least...
2006-11-02 23:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Catch a Falling Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be worried about it. Just try your best to get to meet him before there date. Me and my husband have been together for over 2 years and we met online.
2006-11-02 23:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by R.S.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go with her and RUN too!!! Ask mom to try a lunch first!!
2006-11-02 23:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating sites in my opion cant reach the real person inside. you never know what this person is really like i would never trust a dating site myself my opion?
2006-11-02 23:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should be scared becuse if they ever try to meet eachother he can hurt her or even rape her
2006-11-02 23:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared.
2006-11-02 23:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋