k, rite well my department manager (we shall call her sally) is allright, 26, divorced think she has a bf. and u no shes my mate type thing. anyway found out today that she is sleeping with the store manager (we shall call him bob). this would b fine, cept bob is married with 2 kids and another on the way. also he's about 14yrs older than sally. and there doing it in a storeroom out the back. wtf do i do. coz only 4 of us know. and i really cant face her, having lost all respect for her. how can i face her, without her knowing that i know???
2006-11-02 15:26:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you don't what to confront her, type out a letter and leave it out for the both of them to find. Ask them while they were in the storeroom if they were thinking about his 2 kids and if she is going to help him pay his child support and alimony after his wife divorces his worthless azz. End it with "From the one who knows what is going on and who is also going to let your wife know whats going on." Then send his wife a letter as well. Think of the kids that are getting cheated as well as the wife.
2006-11-02 16:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by kara25701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the way you feel and everything ...the best thing for you to do it is ...ignore everything it's happening....it's sad that you are seeing at everything it's happening and you can not di anything about it ....I learn something and that is to respect other people lives ...I know you feel so uncomour fortable by looking and hearing all the things Sally it is doing ...but the only thing you can do ...it is just ignore things and keep living your life ...she will regret it one day but right now she is so exiting with her crazy relationship that she can not see that this guy it is only using her....if you tell her that she will get so mad that she might not be your friend never ...or could become your worst enemy ....they are adults and they are brave to do this kind of things let's hope they will be brave enough to take the concecuences ...please just stay away...sit on the front door of your house and just observe the pieces get back in place by themselves ....just watch
2006-11-02 15:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is mind your own business. This has nothing to do with you, really, and what you think of it - whether it's right or wrong or whatever - isn't all that important to the people involved in it. I'm not being rude, just frank with you. There's enough on your own plate to be dealt with without eyeing up what's on someone elses.
2006-11-02 15:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bit disgraceful. I would be honest with her about it, simply because the trust is gone. Any person who has no respect for the marital vows of other individuals, in all likelyhood will have no respect for those they are in relationships with.
2006-11-02 15:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by EM-water2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well isn't that agaisnt all store policies?? Call the district manager ! TACKY,, the mmager could get sued for sexual harrassment too,,
2006-11-02 15:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sally is a pig. so is mr. manager. bet his wife and family would be so proud! not to mention their boss! stear clear of sally, you are who you hang out with. not to mention that when you swim with pigs you aslo get dirty!!!
2006-11-02 15:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your friend is doing is none of your business, , she is 26, that is old enough to do with out your or any ones permission, back off
2006-11-02 15:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you said she is your mate and if you mean she is in a relation with you, why not be upfront and let it rip?.. If she is not in a relation with you, why even get involve?
2006-11-02 15:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ricardo R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
curseher out dats anastey and stupid he is married she sahould leave him alone ad in the storage room my gosh thats nastey
2006-11-02 15:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by The Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pretend that you don't know...she'll realize that you know if you do that. (everytime you talk, it would be awkward, like like awkward silence type of thing).
sing "A Whole New World" from Aladdin
2006-11-02 15:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋