ok so heres the deal...my boyfriend lives in san antonio and i havent seen him 3 months. he goes to college and works down there, he told me that he was gonna come to fort worth to visit me last weekend, then school stuff came up and he couldnt make it, so he said that he would come this weekend!!! now he tells me that he is not comin until saturday because he has a test and other stuff to do on friday. If he comes saturday, he will only be here that day because he has work sunday afternoon, which means that we only get to hang out for a couple of hours!! he says its better than nothin, but i think its a tease and im really angry cause i wanna be with him for more than a couple of hours.....should i just be happy that i at least get to see him or am i right to feel angry at him???? im so confused....please help!!!!
2006-11-02 15:26:36 · 8 answers · asked by latincutie101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should be happy. Enjoy the time you have together. At least he is making the effort to come and see you. Give him a break. He is stressing with school and work and he needs to have some down time and he is coming to have some down time with you. So enjoy, do something nice together and show him that you appreciate that fact that he is coming. I envy you. My boyfriend is gone out of town for months and he only called me once. It can always be worse. It sounds to me like you have a nice guy. Be patient with him and enjoy your day together.
2006-11-02 15:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least your boyfriend isn't in Iraq. You should be happy you can spend a little time with him. How come you never come to San Antonio to visit him? A couple of hours is better than nothing. I love my boyfriend and I'm proud of him, but all I get are 5 minute phone calls. Just be happy you get to see him for a couple of hours. If it bothers you that much you could get a boyfriend that lives closer to you.
2006-11-02 16:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School can be very hard, i am sure he is trying his best to see you, but is his best good enough for you. I do think the a couple of hours is better than nothing. Maybe next time instead of simply getting mad maybe offer to help him study while you two hang out, and then you could spend more time together....on the other hand going away to school is an awesome time to meet new people maybe you need to talk with him about that, I truly believe that people make time for the things they really want, so ask your self is he making enough time for your needs?
2006-11-02 15:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by lissapony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to feel what you feel. Could a possible solution possibly be you going to visit him more often? Decide if you're willing to let him finish college and work toward his goals. You should think long and hard about why you feel the way you do. Good luck.
2006-11-02 15:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by beautiful_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Looks like he is trying his best to spend some time with u.
If u are looking for long term relationship, it's best in ur and his interest that he concentrate on education. hope u both will be happy ever after
2006-11-02 15:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Toronto boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him when he gets here. Tell him how you feel, though you gotta understand too, college is tough, especially if you've got a girlfriend somewhere else.
2006-11-02 15:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND SOME ONE WHO WILL ELSE WHO WILL TREAT YOU BETTER YOU DESERVE BETTER THE REASON YOU FEEL THAT WAY IS BECAUSE HE ISN' T THERE FOR YOU I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM MY SONS' FATHER ONLY COMES AROUND EVERY 3 OR 4 WEEKS. {BECAUSE HE WORKS}
WHEN THEY DO THIS THEY ARE PROBLEY CHEATING.
2006-11-02 15:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tonia G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud really appreciate that he is really trying to reach you cuz most ppl, if stuff like that came up, wouldnt even come
2006-11-02 15:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋