i thought i can never fall in love again. then there was this guy whom i knew for 2 yrs.. all of a sudden there was this chemistry between us. but things just wasnt so right, mayb the timing is wrong. both of us are 23. he hinted to me that if a guy put his career first and couldnt spent time with me, is that okie? or if that guy wants me to wait until he got a career.. will i? of course the guy is he. i dunno if he's the one but all i know that i like him now. and the other day, i held his hand. (he did hold me hand even after i let go) does he like me or does he want to reciprocate just because i'm just there for him? but i'm already 23, there r lots of choices ard me. what should i do? thanks.
2006-11-02 15:19:29 · 5 answers · asked by Princess is here 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Princess
Looks like he's hesitant about starting a relationship with you. I guess he's pretty much voiced out his concerns.
No relationship is ever gonna be smooth and pretty, that's how you learn to treasure each other more. But if you really like this guy, why not give it a try.
Good luck
2006-11-02 17:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked you regarding the priority of career over a relationship, i suppose it's due to 2 reasons.
1) He wanted to know whats' your view on whether you prefer a guy who is stable in his career before starting on a relationship or a guy who has not started out in his career.
2) He is probably deciding on whether he should build up a career first before looking into a relationship, but he doesn't want to lose you while doing so / or let you wait for him too long.
He is probably hinting to you that he likes you. Therefore the question to you is whether you like him too and whether you will want to be in a relationship with him. If he is interested in you, he will try to ask you out often and be with you. To decide whether the holding hands situation determines on his liking towards you, I suggest you hold the thought until you have more similar situations occuring.
2006-11-02 23:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him make a kite and fly, because is totally unfair to you. Why can't he balance it up with career and relationship? Go for a better man, I'll sure you got no problem. This is a selfish man, and he should sell his product in the wet market not to you.
2006-11-03 08:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look your are 23.
I pretty sure there are alot more guys waiting for you.That are already had a stable career and willing to have relationship. My advice is that for get about him cause he had no ineterest in you at all coz what he interested more is his career than you. Please think twice.
2006-11-03 02:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try.
2006-11-02 23:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋