I have been dating this girl since Valentines Day 06, and we haven't kissed yet. We just hold hands or "snuggle" together; I have gone on plenty of dates, but I just don't know if I should kiss her or not, and when, or what signs to look out for, etc. Please help!
2006-11-02 14:58:40 · 19 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Woah, so many answers already. I am seeing Marie Antoinette with her this weekend, should I then? lol
2006-11-02 15:07:20 · update #1
You have been dating this girl for about 10 months and she hasn't left you yet. she sounds like a great girl. I mean she's not a floozy or anything like that. Maybe you could ask her if she wants you to kiss her. I would think this would open things up for a good discussion having to do with your relationship. I would say, go easy with her. Don't rush things. Like I said, she seems really special.
2006-11-02 15:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its seems to me like a kiss is waaayyy over due! lol
Really, just do what feels comfortable. The first kiss is usually very awkward, so try kissing her on the cheek when you first see each other on your next date. That will break the ice for the real smooch later!
There isnt one perfect time to go in for a kiss. Just wait for a moment when you two are close and having a good conversation and good eye contact. She'll probably be facing you a lot or have her face turned towards yours if she wants to kiss.
Once again, just follow your heart and go in for it when you feel comfortable.
2006-11-02 23:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! A lot of girls your age (I'm assuming you're young) won't make the first move because they're afraid-Probably just like you are. So just be brave and kiss her! Don't do anything with your tongue...you don't want to gross her out. If all goes well you can always try that sort of thing later. As for things to look for...Don't look. When the time seems right (or romantic enough), just go for it. You'll do fine.
2006-11-02 23:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a sign - you've been together for over eight months. Kiss her! Kiss the girl! Good luck.
2006-11-02 23:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by shortcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls tend to be more shy, and are afraid to take charge. I think when you two end your next date you should ask her if you can give her a 'goodnight kiss'. The worst thing she could say was no. And she had been probaly waiting for you to ask, so I doubt she'd say no.
2006-11-02 23:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Some Girl from College 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out.....she'll more than likely kiss you....if not then when u guys do kiss it'll be the best kiss you'll ever have because of how long you guys have been with holding that from each other.....personnaly wait until christmas time thats when us girls get all romantic atleast i do...so wait it out just a lil longer
2006-11-02 23:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by alex s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not something you can put into words, kissing is a feeling that both of you feel and you're just drawn to each other.... just do it when it feels right... move in slow and pay attention to her, if she's moving away then stop and play with her hair or something... if she moves closer to you then you know you're doing the right thing... plus you could always ask her... just say hey i want to kiss you right now!! best of luck!
2006-11-02 23:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss her. Wait for a pause in conversation, and then look at her. As long as she doesn't look uncomfortable, just lean in and go for it!
2006-11-02 23:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you not sure ask her if you can kiss her ,but if you make sure you say when you are looking in her eyes and when you guys are facing each other and your arms are around her guys did that to me and it work
2006-11-02 23:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hair test FTW!!!
Touch her hair, if she doesn't squirm or something like that then look at her lips and he eyes a few times real quick, if no objection go for it.
2006-11-02 23:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Paintballa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋