2006-11-02 14:58:21 · 20 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dear Sweetu,
According to you, I feel your parents are just mad. Please get them some psychological help.
But, have you ever patiently asked them as to why they are scolding you?
I personally feel that their advices sound like scoldings to you. You probably are too young to see their concern.
You will never realise these things unless you yourself have a child & i am sure you will recollect & later repent.
Sometimes it may be too late.
2006-11-02 16:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by sensible scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be a teenager right.
You should be an average learning student.
Yet a brilliant lad on some other extra curricular activity.
You have ur own reasons to survive ur ideas & be stuborn.
Follow the below stated strategies:
1)Don't do anything for some others sake if you felt it as wrong
2)Do whatever you want if you feel its right!
3)Face challenges with a brave heart, do not hideaway.
4)But donot challenge ur parents or have a revenge feeling towards them it will ruin ur character.
5)Try to get what you like or else you will be forced to like what you get.
Talk to ur parents about ur interest, if thet are closed minded,prove them ur point by achieveing ur goal. It will work, they will understand ur feelings.
Spend more time with them, like go for outing,holidays.
Have dinner together this will always help a lot.
Bribe them with small gifts, like flowers to mom & tie for dad.
This will convey that you are always for them.
Stubborn arrogant attitude never helps, instead it will spoil the relationship dear.
All the best. Here you go....
2006-11-02 17:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kanchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not mad my dear .There must be some reason they scold you .Parents love their kids and it is for the benefit of kids they scold them .Try to find out reason behind u being scolded by them then u shall come to know it .
2006-11-02 17:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by ravinder b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plz, Do n't get disheartened. Parents if scold their children it is for their well beings. They love their children so much that they expect them to do well always and not left behind others. Behind this scolding there are hidden love, affection & tenderness which you can feel always. So, try to understand their feelings and the will certainly be happy with you
2006-11-02 21:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by dk n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be they are stressed out at work, or going through some difficulty. I am sure you too unintentionally hurt people when you are in a bad mood. every body does that. it is wrong but still people make mistakes dont they? now when you make mistakes whot do your parents do? they tel you you are wrong and mighjt even scold you but they never leave you or stop loving you. so you too remember that no mater what your parents are yours only and they dont have anybody to love them apart from you. you are very important to them.
also why not try to cheer them up, by concentrating on studies and helping them by doing small thing in house(like dusting etc?)
also when you see that they are in a good mood talk to them. tell them politely that you understand their tensions but they will just try to control their anger and talk to you nicely instead then you too would feel that they love you.
i am sure your parents will listen as they love you so much.
2006-11-02 19:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think the ways you can make them happy no parents do bad things for their children if they scold you that s only because of only parents are the true well wishers of their kids.
do not take it on heart, try to find out the reasons why they do so if they have any problem then try to find out the solution.
give them lots of love and do not give them chance to scold you again
2006-11-02 15:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by puneet29_12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey come on this happens in almost all families in India...try hearing to them if you have really made a mistake or explain them if you dont feel you have done anything or if your parents are not of that type just be silent until they finish yelling and go ahead and do your work...there is no other go!! All the Best :)
2006-11-03 22:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Harish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your parents that their scoldings are hurting u r feelings and u need to have a open talk with your parents and let them know how insecure and unwanted you feel because of their scoldings.....or let them tell you why they are scolding you ...their should be a reason for that. talk with them and set things right with them ...try to make them happy by being obedient...thats the best thing.
2006-11-02 15:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by kaas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sad sweetu but don't worry i think they have problem with each other ,n u r small in ur family so may be that is the reason of their anger be cool dear try to find out reason of it.ur parents love u so much dear that may be their frustration,so don't worry.
one day they will realise that their sweetu is innocent,u always obey ur parents n try 2 make them happy ok......good luck sweetu.
2006-11-03 15:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They would not scold you if there was no reason. Ask them about these.
2006-11-03 05:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋