There is this girl, who I WAS pretty sure liked me. Last week she was hinting to me that she wanted to go out on a date with me, but I was slow and didn't ask her. Now, I'm kind of a cocky/funny guy (and this works well) so please don't tell me to just tell her how I feel, I really doubt this will help me much. So, yesterday, I asked her where she was going to take me this weekend, but I don't think she thought I was serious, since she said to the club (but we're in high school). I told her she had to come up with something better than that if she wanted to hang out with me, and she laughed. I won't see her again until Thursday, but I really want to do something with her this weekend. She jokingly told some friends (while I was around) that she would be taking me to prom. I turned away and heard another girl ask her if she was serious, and I looked back just in time to see her shaking her head no, as if she didn't want me to hear her. I still think she likes me, but I'm not as sure now
2006-11-02 14:57:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might be playing hard to get since you didnt ask her the first time. I mean boys can be slow and they dont make it easy for us to ask them. I would ask her i mean it wouldnt hurt to ask her to the movies. I think she may still be upset with you thats why she acting differently like she just doesnt care anymore. If she starts acting cold and mean then forget about her and move on. IF your sure she likes you then ask her. YOu will never suceed in something you want if you dont go for it. It might end up floating past you.
2006-11-02 15:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by ck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's saying something along the lines of taking you to the prom, even joking, she's probably got something for you. For the date thing, ask her again, just like as a hanging out thing. Just know her better and how she reacts to your actions. When you're pretty sure that she's interested, you've gotta tell her. Cuz you still gonna hafta tell her anyway right?
2006-11-02 15:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow....and to think that im confused by guys. well i honestly dont know. i mean honestly? i think you should ask her out in a way that she KNOWS is serious. and make sure u do it when she is either alone or w/ her closest friends. and when u ask her out expect her to say yes (just think to youreself that she will because the more confident and positive you are the more likely she is to pick up on that and say yes) and know where u r going to go so that when she does say yes, you already know where to go. lol. hope i helped!
2006-11-02 15:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how much fun is it to be in high school.? god do i miss it. when you get older asking someone out gets way easier. but i guess it's just because you've had more practice.
It's sounds to me she likes you. yeah, don't spill your guts to her. nobody wants to know everything up front. if you did then you'd lose interest. but definitely get the courage and ask that girl out. It's scary but it's sooo worth it when she says yes.
2006-11-02 15:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by jay-z8900 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on she is playing games.. She is messing around with you, it sounds like she has the same kind of sense of humor as you. So not much more for you to do then get over it and move on.
2006-11-02 15:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long to read buddy! I didn't take the Evelyn Wood speed reading course. Be brief and to the point and you may get a decent reply.
2006-11-02 15:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boy you guys need to learn how to talk to each other, body language is for advanced married couples only
2006-11-02 15:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her whats up. But keep your options open your young.
2006-11-02 15:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by dreamsjv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to tell her directly BUT if you are not willing to do that. Do you know any of her friend who is your CLOSE friend, or maybe one of her friend who is close enough to one of your friend. Tell your friend to indirectly ask her if she likes you.
I know this is complicated but that's all I have.
2006-11-02 14:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask her to go out somewhere.
2006-11-02 15:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋