my girlfriend and i been togther for a year 1 1/2 now and now everything change
2006-11-02 14:43:58 · 27 answers · asked by ayana l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You always have that one time, if you look back and think about it, where you have that fleeting thought...
...This is the beginning of the end. Trust that instinct.
2006-11-02 14:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Old Cripple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
changes can be good for a relationship. It depends on what the change is, even if the fone calls are lesser, meetings are lesser, some relationships are strong cos they have reached a point where even with little communication, they can depend on one other for emotional support. I guess that is why u are in a relationship in the first place. But if you say change is in the form of no feeling of love, then u need to reconsider , Maybe a change of activity may be just the breath of fresh air your relationship needs. Anyhow, breaking or making a relationship is up to you. 1 and a half yrs is a long time investment, try to make it work instead of saying it wont.
2006-11-02 22:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Maheswari M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when all your efforts to maintaining a relationship have been exhausted and nothing seems to ease the pain..People change in relationships you know but if you feel like theres nothing else you can do just dont hold on...its easier said than done but when you feel like you cant handle it anymore then why hold on ...you are only torturing yourself ...you need to talk to her first and see where you both stand before you break up...can this relationship be salvaged? people change in relationships for various things like a birth of a baby or a job can separate you guys...so before you jump to conclusions and call it quits you need to sit down and talk and see if theres anything to be done differently to live in harmony or if you both decide that you are too different and too exhausted to hold on then bid your farewells and wish each other luck ....good luck cutie
2006-11-02 22:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause you all went into the relationship to fast before you got a chance to get to know one another it isn't the first and won't be the last so and like you said out of your own mouth everything has changed good luck
2006-11-02 22:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is over when one of you don't feel that warm feeling in your heart when you see each other. When one side is broken, both sides fall. But a relationship is officially over when something of key importance is broken, either your bond, your gift, or your heart.
2006-11-02 22:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over when yous dont have any thing in common any more, when yous rather be with friends or anyone else besides them, you just dont want them around any more, they dont make you smile, you dont miss them if your away for a long time, you cant see a future with them, your more sad than happy when around them.
If your just tried of trying to make things work, and feel like all you do is forcing yourself to stay with them.
2006-11-02 22:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the chemistry is lost and you two don't get a long as well, I would think it's time to call it quits. The best thing you can do is follow your heart, and do what's best for you!
2006-11-02 22:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over when you to don't care if you look great or just ok. Also they there is no surprises anymore and your just together to be well togehter. Best Of Luck!! :)
2006-11-02 22:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is no Love between two people at all
2006-11-02 22:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by Vocal Prowess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence from you no touching no more or no conversation. Always doing other things makes up all excuses that she can think of.
2006-11-02 22:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by stephanie_kanode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋