he sits by me at lunch every day he won't leave me alone he even calls me i don't like him but i don't want to hurt his feelings what should i do
2006-11-02 14:41:14 · 14 answers · asked by Monica F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be his friend... and politely let him know you think of him as a friend only.
Good luck...and it is VERY nice of you to not want to hurt his feelings. He is lucky to have you as a friend.
2006-11-02 14:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by ilovetiti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is it that he can call you? Did you give your phone #? Do you even want to be friends with this guy? Are you flattered by his attention even if you don't like him? It seems to me that this guy thinks you like him because you entertain his call and he can sit with you during lunch time. If you can't tell him you don't like him, change your lunch routine.
2006-11-02 15:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by MaTriX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth.. That is for your own goods.. If you didn't tell him earlier, that will hurt his feelings because all this time he think that you like him..
2006-11-02 14:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt his feeling... it has to happen or he might think that you like him.. if he likes you a lot he will most likely mis read your friendly actions and take them to be you like him.. and will keep pursueing you.. just tell him.. it will hurt his feelings but... your in school i'm sure he will have more lady friends in the future.
2006-11-02 14:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you hurt him, or suffer. If you want to suffer you have to continue doing what his doing if you want to stop whats his doing the only way to do is to make a phony boyfriend!!
2006-11-02 14:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by ilily20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tries something tell him you just want to be friends. Otherwise, just act friendly now.
2006-11-02 14:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by 1 Sailor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice to him but, let him know that you just want to be friends.
2006-11-02 14:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie_kanode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend, what could that hurt.
2006-11-02 14:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom
2006-11-02 14:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you dont like and you dont want to be his friend..
2006-11-02 14:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋