if a girl gives her guy a bj and lets him go down on her.. and they do mutual masturbation can she still be considered a virgin?
no i havent done all of that. and if i do all of those things..shouldn't i just go ahead and do the rest? cause if my bf isn't gonna consider me a virgin after all of that then i might as well go all the way. i just wanted to see what yall think of girls who do sexual acts but don't go all the way..
maybe thats actually worse cause then they just seem like a tease or something
2006-11-02 14:37:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy I would not want a girl to do more than she wanted to and I would hope that I would not add any pressure to her to go all the way. Technically I believe that you are a virgin until you have been penetrated vaginally by a man's penis. If you were willing to do all kinds of things except that I would not consider you a tease... if we are talking about fooling around with every guy you meet then you might be kind of skanky... I think you should wait until you meet the right man and are at least engaged if not married. I lived with my wife for 8 months before we were married and let me tell you it got pretty tough... we did just about every thing you can think of... but we made it until we were married until we had full blown sex. Good Luck to you and how you decide to be...
2006-11-02 14:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The true loss of "virginity" is when a man inserts his penis into the girls vagina. End of story
Some consider the loss of "Virginity" the breaking of the hymen but a girl can break her hymen with a tampon , durring excersize, or even riding a bike....
Unfortunately a Gyno (if your mother brings you in for an exam to find out) can mistake the broken or missing hymen as loss of virginity. Which is why people make that mistake.
Some others believe "Virginity" is innocence and if that is what you consider "Virginigy" then any act which is slightly sexual is losing it.
2006-11-02 14:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by xxkittenluvxx143 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the old movies, the church would look for a hymen, if it was not there, she was not a virgin. That would be for a royal marriage. I think this sounds technical enough for me. I know a girl who covered this up, by getting married when she was menstrating, and she got away with it. LOL. She told me about it. I was shocked. No it was not me. I think there is a lot to be said for honesty and communication. The problem seems to be it takes life experience to observe someone, and be able to identify a liar, you have to watch and Listen very closely.
2006-11-02 14:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by noface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically, her hymen has to be broken....and some girls can break their hymen if they are very physically active (participating in moderate contact sports...etc) Don't ever "just give in" and "go all the way" if it is something you are uncomfortable with (regardless of the reasons, no matter how small someone else might think they are) Are you really concerned with someone thinking you are a "tease"? Just be careful, respect yourself first and foremost and never do anything that you are not entirely sure of, just because of what someone else says or thinks. And make sure you get all of the facts...about STD's and pregnancy....and practice safe sex (you know you can contract STD's orally right?)
2006-11-02 14:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Technically oral sex is sex. So technically she isn't a virgin.
I had considered myself a virgin until I had vaginal sex though. I think it is what you want it to be. That was my choice and seems to be the most "correct" response.
Mutual masturbation has nothing to do with virginity. And NO you aren't teasing. If you aren't ready, you aren't ready. And that is okay. Don't feel bad about it.
2006-11-02 14:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i would still consider you a virgin. i dont think you loose your virginity till he sticks it in you, then you lost it. but going down on eachother is not having sex.
2006-11-02 14:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, oral sex is a type of sex.unless, you have an intercourse with a man, your virginity is still there.oral sex is merely like teasing each other, for a greater foreplay or something...
2006-11-02 14:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are a virgin until a penis enters your vagina. unless of course you start experimenting with other women, then lines are less clear.
2006-11-02 14:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say a girl is a virgin until she has vaginal intercourse.
2006-11-02 14:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by HoneyLegs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the way i see it, your a virgin until you actually have intercourse.
2006-11-02 14:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Amber F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋