I'm not popular with the girls, and not all that good with the boyshow can i get a man? i need help! pleeeassse!
2006-11-02 14:31:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just cant get the boys attention, in a good way im about 5", 122 pounds so you can see why it would be hard for me. I just realy need some good advice help me out pleeeaassse. :(
2006-11-02 14:37:56 · update #1
there was a time in my life when i felt exactly how you feel.. i know that its frustrating when you dont seem to get any attention.. women need attention...!!! this is what i did.. i would write down all the things that i love about myself.. at first it was very difficult.. but as the days went by , i noticed a certain radiance on my face because i started loving myself for who i truly am.. you have to start loving yourself .. get comfortable with you.. once you have achieved that, you will experience a true freedom and confidence... the reason why people are shy is because they are not confident about themselves.. you deserve soooo much better... you are who you are..!! enjoy being you, and when the guys see that ..trust me , its a huge trurn on...!!! i am saying this from personal experience.... it really works.. have fun Hot E... !! CELEBRATE WHO YOU ARE ...!!! and guys will beg to be with you..!!
2006-11-02 14:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by aiswaria k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are lucky. Take this time to work on yourself. If you are a successful person, you will be popular with the kind of people you need to meet. If you are just a very young person or a child, try to realize that nine chances out of ten, most of your life is ahead of you. What makes you popular when you are young is not necessarily what you will choose when you are older. Why don't you undertake to do something physical to get into shape. Something that requires discipline like Ty Quan Do. When you get into specific disciplines, friends come with them.
2006-11-02 14:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound extreme, but give yourself a make over. Nothing huge, just pluck your eye brows, put on some eye liner (use thin lines) and light eye shadow. Oh and maybe some nail polish...light pink or light purple? Then act cute in class....play dumb and ask the teacher a silly question! Guys like that:)
2006-11-02 14:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like yourself. Confidence it the most attractive personality trait you can have. Believe me, there are men/boys who are attracted to every single one of the various physical parts there are, and if you're open and love yourself the way you are, others will as well. As for being shy, try to come out of your shell a little. Smile as much as you can (without looking like a cheshire cat) and learn how to make small talk, preferrably the non-annoying kind. Get to know as many people as you can and learn to appreciate the differences in them...it will make it easier for them to appreciate the ways you are different too.
2006-11-02 14:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by valsteam2060 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not in shape get in a square(couldn't help myself). But really if you want a boy friend just mostly be yourself, then work your girl power over boys(shh the boys don't know about it). Love yourself then people will love you, act possitive and people with be drawn to you, most of all Live Life On Your Own Terms!!!!
Best of Luck!! :)
2006-11-02 14:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanna attract the right guy, so you need to be yourself and confident when he's around (and anytime!). Try to thing of him as a guy who you want to be friends with, and everything will come natural. Don't try to hard, or else you'll embarrass yourself. Jejeje.
Be patience, and you'll have a great friend that will care about you in no time.
2006-11-02 14:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey--why not try to improve your self esteem by getting in shape? It would really make you feel better and kind of show the other girls that you are hot and can get cute boys. At any age, guys like girls who take good care of themselves.
2006-11-02 14:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be down on yourself...that will not help with the situation at all. popularity isn't everything either...trust me. Just be yourself and don't let anyone or anything change you. you are your own person and people will like you the way you are. people rather be friends with real instead of fakes! just talk to some more people and try to become friends with them. even the guys. don't be scared.
2006-11-02 14:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Haley Candace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. The right guy will be attracted to you because of who you are, not what you may try to or think you should be. All of us are unique (unless you have an identical twin).
You've probably got more to offer than the ones who are putting it 'out' there in a shallow fashion.
Don't change to suit someone else, you'll be living their life, not your, unique own.
Smile
2006-11-02 14:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try acting happier and smile at people (but has to be natural looking). Don't be afraid to stand out (if it's not something bad). If you're not in good shape, at least try to dress sexy, get sexy hair, and show confidence. Keep your cool, and play hard to get (guys love that). I'm a guy, I should know.
2006-11-02 14:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋