I'm known as "the weird girl" and am very often told that I'm weird, different and unique. I have a high IQ and all, I'm just very creative and unusual and outspoken. Because I'm not accepted very often and people don't really "get me", I tend to hang out with unpopular kids who I like for their personalities. But on the other hand, I'm a 5'8" blonde who has a nice body that's mostly skinny except for having fat around the good parts. So this popular rich kid has started to im me, and he's admitted he didn't talk to me for a bit due to my reputation, and I'm wondering if looks can counterbalance other factors? He apologized for being ignorant and everything, and he used to be mean to me when we were younger and I was less attractive. Do looks really balance out a weird personality and unpopularity, or has this kid gone through a paradigm shift?
2006-11-02 14:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm assuming you're still in high school?
In high school, hormones rule. Period. You could bring your pet mouse Luther to class and call him a plague rat, and the guys won't care. Doesn't really matter if you're a mindless bimbo or a genius, it's really only a secondary concern. 5'8"? Blond? Nice, ummm... "parts"? You sound like a guy's ultimate fantasy.
On the other hand, if you're as smart as you claim then your intelligence will captivate him, especially if he's fairly smart too. A hot body is one thing, but a meaningful conversation, a new insight or point of view and he'll probably fall head-over-heals. Especially since you also seem to be quite confident about your attributes. Confidence, intelligence, and beauty - what's not be love?
Finally - you're on the cusp of adulthood, where "popularity" and "weirdness" are completely meaningless and a connection with your significant other is everything. So the real question is, do you like him? Does he treat you as you deserve to be treated? Is he a great guy? If he is, and you like him, go with the flow, because from the sounds of it, you'll be able to get any guy you want. You can afford to be discriminating.
2006-11-02 14:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't think of your self as weird......try unique,everybody now days ARE weird,think of other peoples actions sometimes.....now aren't they weird? now go to a mirror and take a good look at yourself....tell yourself all the good qualities you do have and ask yourself after you though about that...am i weird? most likely the answer will be no! you are special and if someone does not see that don't give them your time or energy to argue with them,if they say you are weird,let them know so ARE YOU! stand up for yourself now! in the future they might regret not talking to you,you will live a great life as a model if you want and they will regret then! so in mean time enjoy the friends you do have and ignore the rest,DUST THE DIRT OUT OF YOUR SHOULDERS AND IGNORE THEM!!!
2006-11-02 14:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by QUEEN K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality, confidence and intelligence get my vote every time.
That goes for the kind of person i'm proud to be, and for the type of guys i like.
If someone doesnt dig you for the way you look, than that someone can go take a hike in my opinion.
Be proud of who you are; if you happen to have a great body to boot, then all the better.
I hope this guy apreciates you for "you". Because you sound like a great girl.
Good luck.
2006-11-02 14:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by harttattoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good-looking - popularity will follow. You sound like you are in high school. Guys will overlook any personality flaw for a girl with blonde hair and a good figure. That goes for adult males too.
2006-11-02 14:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nat R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 11:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look know hes just mad that he didnt talk to you before because now your beauty is starting to show .and he just wants to talk to you know because of your looks find out wat are really his motives for such a sudden change.
2006-11-02 14:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if you're good looking, then it doesn't matter if you're weird.
2006-11-02 14:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by m deal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you are good looking
2006-11-02 14:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by tampabayfriends 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋