My crush, 23, has been having relationship troubles for a while. His girlfriend is leaving to go back home to Montreal for good on Monday, because she hates living in Toronto, They've decided to split up on Monday because they know it won't work long distance. We've been flirty recently, and if i'm not misinterpurtating his signs, he's interested in me. However, how long should I wait before I start to show him i'm interested? I don't want to be disrepectful- but i don't want to wait too long and lose him. Or should I wait for him to come to me?
2006-11-02 14:16:10 · 19 answers · asked by shy_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys if they are doing the break up can get chicks anytime from that afternoon to when ever... so ASAP I would show that you like him.. if he ain't ready he will let you know...
2006-11-02 14:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe show him you are there for him at first comfort him in his time of need, show him how much you care for him... then while you are at it, show him some signs that you want him... maybe "one thing can lead to another" sort of thing it gets a little complicated b/c you two are friends,but if it was ment o be everything will work itself out!! If all else fails i would just come out and tell him how you are feeling... its quite possible he feels the same for you!! Don't drag your feet, but don't wait too long, wait the most like a week or two, im not sure.... use your best judgement!!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-02 14:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got with my wife of eight years now two weeks after my fiance of three years broke it off with me. My wife and I had a strong friendship before we got together so that helps. Bottom line - guys need about 5 minutes to be ready to move on and if you two are right for eachother it won't be just a rebound thing either. Good luck.
2006-11-02 14:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy and the relationship that was. I separated from my husband almost two years ago, and we're a world apart, but he is still in contact everyday and can't move on. Maybe since this guy wouldn't make the move to Montreal for his ex, this tells you something - keep seeing him, and if the signs continue, then go for it if you don't mind making the first move! Good luck!!
2006-11-02 14:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lucia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait a while...
You don't want to be a rebound girlfriend, because those don't typically last... It really depends on the seriousness/length of the relationship.
I hope everything works out for you!
2006-11-02 14:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, the relationship, and his ex. Theres no way of calculating. With some it can take a year. With some, they need 2 minutes.
2006-11-02 14:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 20 minutes!
2006-11-02 14:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for him to come to you, but keep on flirting. If there's one thing that I've learned from "He's just not that into you" is that he'll ask you out if he really wants to go out with you and that you shouldn't make up too many excuses for him. If he asks you out, he'll ask you out, but in the meantime, flirt of course.
2006-11-02 14:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WILL TAKE HIM ABOUT A WEEK OR SO IT DEPENDS ON THE GUY IF HE`S REALLY FLIRTY ABOUT 2 TO 3 DAYS IF HE`S NOT THAN 7 TO 8 DAYS
2006-11-02 14:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Patrice R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Around 48 hours.
2006-11-02 14:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Nat R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋