I am a 26 year old single mom of two. The father of my children and I can't seem to get alone. I don't ask for much, All I want from him is to take care of his children and treat me with respect. He is responsible for the daycare expenses, however I have to call and beg him to pay. Everytime we argue he calls and tells his family his side of the story, But they fail to hear my side of the story. what do I do?
2006-11-02 14:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by christina7060 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get a court order for the money and child support. Other than that leave him alone, he doesnt deserve you or your children.
2006-11-02 14:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.The only thing you can do is keep doing what you are doing.Who cares what his family thinks of you.As long as you take care and love your children your doing great!You need to tell yourself this as well.You are a woman in a mans world.But the thing is women are much stronger than men.They don't understand how hard it is to take care of children and all the millions of other responsabilities that come along with it.Don't ever give up.It will pay off in the long run.My son is in kiindergarten,and I have a two year old daughter as well.I always work with them and trying to teach them new things everyday.Well,my son made the honor roll!The hard work is paying off.Your kids will turn into a great adult like yourself as long as you never give up.Think of all the possiabilities they will have in the future because of you.
2006-11-02 14:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by amy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. Don't depend on others to validate your side of the story. My son is 12 and his father's family has never had anything to do with him. They didn't seemed concerned with the fact that their precious son, cheated. They don't seem concerned with the fact he has several children with several mothers.
Their families never really seem concerned with the ex. It is horrid that people put their family first, when that person is lower than scum and don't help to raise their child.
2006-11-02 14:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by neinmom2one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer and let him do your talking for you. His family doesn't HAVE to hear your side of the story as the story only involved you and HIM.
2006-11-02 14:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u feel the need to get there respect they r no part of u anymore.
2006-11-02 14:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court, get childsupport and say **** them
2006-11-02 14:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋