do guys control when they ejaculate during sex?

Question

When is the best tiem to do it if they can control it?

Answer 1

The only way that a man can control when he ejaculates is by experience. You need to have had enough sex to understand what that feeling is... then once you feel yourself getting to that point you can either slow things down a bit, move on to something else for a while, or try to think about something other than sex during sex so that you might last longer... but when it is time there is not a lot a man can do to stop things... that is why unprotected sex is a very bad idea. A man can have every intention of pulling out and still end up ejaculating inside you! It is like a sneeze that you don't see coming... it can just happen. I hope that helped you a bit... Good Luck!

Answer 2

You sound young and inexperienced. There is never a best time to have sex. A guy can not control his ejaculation. He may be able to control and keep a hard for some time, but there is always a chance that some sperm will be released even what is called pre-*** can get you pregnant. Don't let them tell you anything different and don't have sex without protection. If you're smart you will save yourself for when you get married.

Answer 3

Kind of...but it's mostly out of our control. It's mainly a mental thing. It depends a lot on you too and what you are contributing. As far as a best time there is none really.

Answer 4

Its like a sneeze !
Sometimes it can be held back, usually only up to a point, then its just got to go ! can't hold back anymore !

Sometimes it comes suddenly and by surprise, other times it just builds up, then lets it go !

Ultimately, almost always, it can't be stopped or controlled

The form it takes depends on a lot of factors:
excitation, pre- build-up, stress or nervousness, confidence relaxation, exercise/practice, health, foods or beverages taken, ...

Answer 5

I can't answer for all guys, but for me sometimes I can control it, but for the most part I can't, it just happens, although I can try to keep it from happening but I'm not always able too.

Answer 6

some can control and some cant. the guys that can control, will slow down and take it easy so he doesnt get too excited..

Answer 7

No we don't.
It is out of control.

Answer 8

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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.

He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied